Is this amount of lubrication normal?

Question

I've recently become sexually active with my boyfriend (yes we are using condoms); it was my first time, but not his, so he's being very sweet and patient with me.

We've had s*x twice, both with lots of foreplay beforehand, and both times I've stained his sheets with blood (not menstrual blood) and what I assume is copious amounts of vaginal fluid/lubrication. Neither of us were surprised by the blood, but I was surprised by the sheer amount of fluid. We had s*x for 20 or so minutes, and there was a wet spot the size of a man's hand on the bed. He hasn't remarked on whether it was strange or not; we were making jokes about me constantly staining his sheets. But I just want to know, does this happen when most people have s*x?

Answer 1

oh man.. i thought it was way bigger.. when i read "the side of a man's hand" i was like "are you kidding me"? are you aware of what some women deal with when they squirt?

Answer 2

Happened with one of my ex, more than you do.She also sprayed sometimes

Answer 3

its pretty normal.it has happenend with my gf often.but now we r carefull.i keep a towel below her before starting so that we dont spoil the bedsheet.

Answer 4

When you said a "huge spot" i thought you meant like as big as if you wet the bed.  The size of a man's hand is really not a big deal.  I'm surprised he hasn't seen something like that before.

Answer 5

YES DEFINITELY it is normal but mind you the correction THIS IS NOT CONSIDERED LUBRICANT or lubrication on your part. I experience this once with a girl friend of mine, so I know this is not lubrication. This fluid you mentioned, it is colorless right? And odorless correct too? You're boyfriend hit your G-Spot. Now you may ask what is it?

The Gräfenberg spot, or G-spot, is a female erogenous zone which when stimulated leads to high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms. Other researchers have attempted to locate the G-spot by building on the claim that G-spot stimulation leads to female ejaculation. Tepper hypothesized that non-urine female ejaculate originated from the female paraurethral glands, or Skene's gland.[10] In their study they examined tissue from 18 patients and demonstrated that 15 showed prostate-specific antigens. More recent studies have backed up this finding, leading some to call the Skene's glands the female prostate.[11] This finding has been used to claim that the G-spot is actually a system of glands and ducts that surround the urethra. This system is located within the anterior (front) wall of the v****a, about one centimeter from the surface and one third to one-half the way in from the vaginal opening.[12]

In July 2002, Emmanuele Jannini of the University of L'Aquila, Italy discovered PDE5 activity in the area of the G-spot and speculated that the absence of G-spot orgasms is connected to the lack of Skene's glands in some women. In such women, concentrations of PDE5 were much lower.[13] However, most researchers feel that the connection between the Skene's Gland and the G-spot is weak.[4][14] The Skene's Gland does not seem to have receptors for touch stimulation and no direct evidence for its involvement has been forthcoming.[15]

The location, and even existence, of the G spot has been hotly contested in medical circles. While doctors know that female sexual anatomy varies substantially, until now there has been no solid evidence to link those differences to a woman's sexual responses. "For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has a G spot or not," Dr Emmanuele Jannini told New Scientist magazine. The G spot is only thought to affect a woman's ability to have vaginal orgasms, so if women do not have one "they can still have a normal o****m through stimulation of the clitoris," Jannini said.

In my own conclusion NOT ALL WOMEN have these kind of g-spot, in my own experience out of 4 women I had relationship only one had these kind of condition. With regards to blood these could be the tearing of your hymen because as you said these is your first time but not with your boyfriend. You are very lucky that you really enjoyed the pleasure of s*x in these manner unlike other women who suffered with their partner in bed without having o****m what so ever. As if you were just urinating when these amount of fluid comes out of you, correct? You just simply can't stop it as if it is just free flowing fluid coming out of your v****a when you two are having s*x just like my own experience, yup we also didn't talk about it but I was amaze to what the amount of fluid coming out of her, I even taste it and smell it. I found nothing wrong with the taste nor the smell because both composition have nothing to tell. Just like I said before it is odorless and tasteless. It is like a water from a fountain or in a river. It is just normal, I'll say you're boyfriend is so lucky having you, I found that most women who lubricate much are so affectionate and loving. Correct?