Is this anyones first summer wearing a 2 piece bating suit?

Question

i would love to wear a 2 piece but I just don't feel comfortable...i just wear short and tank top when i go to the beach? So is this your first summer stepping out in a bikini?

Answer 1

You should be comfortable when you go to the beach, its a place to relax and unwind and have a good time. If you don't feel comfortable wearing a bikini, then don't! It's perfectly acceptable for a woman to wear shorts and a tank top when they go to the beach, not every woman HAS to wear a bikini when they go to the beach to be a woman.

Answer 2

oh all the time....thong too..and i weigh over 300 pounds....yep yepp..i strut mah stuff! ( hear round of collective gagging)

ok ok..im kidding....i wear shorts and t shirt...sheesh!

besides...i dont care for the beach much anyhow...

Answer 3

i have never worn a 2 piece before... only once at my friend's house cause i forgot mine and she had only two pieces! It felt un comfortable!! And besides, my mom has NEVER worn one, and thinks that they aren't good. I get so mad at her cause she controlls my life! but if your mom or dad doesn't, then it is perfectly fine to wear one or not. I know, everyone I see wears a bikini (girls) and I fell very out there and weird. but go ahead and wear what u want cause that is ur desition! (or wear a one piece)

Answer 4

Some RADICAL FEMINISTS suggest that you feel comfortable with your body, no matter what you choose to wear.

Answer 5

Hey Anatol- Here's your dreamgirl's bathing suit- straight from 1893! I thought you'd like it...

http://www.agelesspatterns.com/images/14...

Answer 6

Actually, yes, it is. I used to wear one-pieces to the beach, and last summer, I didn't wear a bathing suit at all. (I wore clothes, in case anyone thinks I was inferring that I went au naturel.)

Answer 7

I don't think I've ever worn a one piece! Lol!

Try focusing on the things you like about your body, and emphasise those aspects. If you feel more comfortable, you could wear a tankini instead of a bikini, or add a sarong. Confidence is attractive; go for it and enjoy your summer! :)

Answer 8

Nope. I don't ever wear 2 piece suits. I prefer one piece suits...to me, they look classier.  Even when I was younger and thin, I didn't like to show off a lot of skin. I've always been modest in my attire.

EDIT

LOL@ the "dreamgirl" swimsuit. I'm not THAT modest!

ANOTHER EDIT

I found a website with some very nice swimsuits that come in all sizes. Maybe the right one for you is there?

http://www.swimsuitsforall.com/

Answer 9

Nope - its all I wear.  Should I?  Probably not by 'society's standards'....but I do my level best not to determine how to live MY life by the ideas of people I don't know.

Your first step could be a tankini...certainly not as 'showy' as a bikini.  But in the end, you're at the beach to have fun, catch some sun and to swim.  And if you wait until you have the approval of strangers to do what you want, you will find yourself old very quickly, and full of regrets for all the things you didn't think you could or should do.

Somehow, when I turned forty, I was granted with an inner peace that allowed me to make my own decisions without fear of judgement from others....I only wish I'd been granted it much sooner.

Good luck - and enjoy your summer on YOUR terms.

Answer 10

This is my first summer in a two piece that doesnt cover my stomach. I'd be considered skinny weight-wise, but my stomach sticks out a little or something. But I love my body for what it is, and I just got over the fact that Im not perfect and I wear one anyways.

Answer 11

well, back in my school days when I used to work out, I didn't realy need a two peice bathing suit, but now Im getting kinda Flabby....

I might need the support

Answer 12

I'll wear two pieces again because I'd been working out and eating well, so I earned it!... But is all about how you feel yourself on it, if you're not so confortable use tankini...

Answer 13

No, last summer was & it was a green tankini, real cute. Go shopping w/ someone else so you can find a cute 2 piece that will look good on you, it's always good to get a 2nd opinion.

Answer 14

Nope!  Do you THINK your fat or ARE you fat.  Don't be nervous.  Just do it, you only live once.

But I take it back if your 500+ lbs.  ;)

Answer 15

I grew up at the beach in So Cal and a bikini was mandatory!lol You put you're butt right into one and forget what other people think!! When they start paying your bills then you can pay attention to their comments, until then they can shove it!!!

Answer 16

I still wear a bikini. I just don't get the smaller ones anymore.