Is this bad at my age.....?

Question

im 14 gonna be 15 in a month and i want a baby soooo bad its not even funny. like, idk i work wiith babies at my church nursery and i see how happy the moms are with them. and ive worked with mentally retarded kids since i was 11 so i know how to take care of them and ive worked with older kids from 4-12. so i know that they dont stay babies forever. i just want one soooo bad. is this normal

Answer 1

Kind of, but don't do it, you will only regret it I promise!

Answer 2

yes you are to young,, you may know how to look after them,, but thats not all what its about!! you need your own house,, with a stable relation ship, you also need to be financialy stable,, its not just helping look after them,, having a baby is 24 hours 7 days a week,, your not ready!! i know i dont know you,, but its the truth,, you think you can handle it,, but iv seen lots of girls your age failing!! please, DONT do it,, you shouldnt even be having s*x!!

Answer 3

this is normal but dont go to any extremes, there are downsides of having a baby and if you had one at your age you wouldnt be able to take care of it

Answer 4

I'm a mum, would you like to see how tired I am from my child, or how frustrated she can make me instead?

Answer 5

i know alot of girls your age who want one,my advice wait till you finish highschool at least.

Answer 6

you want a baby at the age of 15 it kinda weird but it would be so much better if you don't because you have school and friends to deal with and if you have a baby your parent are going to have to take care of it while your out of the house and all.

i recommend you to live a little then think about having babies.

go have fun  

Answer 7

Yes it is bad for you to want a baby at an early age, PLEASE wait and live your life.Children are a big responsibility, true kids are cute and a lot of fun but unless you are financially stable I don't advise you to make the mistake of having a child at such a young age.And also watching someone else kids is a lot different than tending to your own 24/7.

Answer 8

not rele i'm 15 and i would love to have a babby but i know it would ruin me so i'm going to finish colloge and get a stable job first....even tho it means i hav to wait longer i think it will turn out better for both me and the babby!!!!....i would advise you to also wait till you grad high school before haveing one that way at least you'll have a degree...and a beter job....hope i could help

Answer 9

Its natrue kicking in. You want to have a baby because you've seen other mother's and their kids.

But lay off it because you shouldnt have a kid until at LEAST 18. Because at 15 your studies will be limited, and it takes ALOT of money and time to take care of a kid. Plus there could be health concerns at your age.

So just wait until your 18 please.

Answer 10

I don't think it is normal. I did not even think about babies when i was that age.

Yea it may be fun to babysit but see you do it for a few hours and then go home. Having a baby of your own takes all your time for the next 18 years.

Get a dog or cat maybe even fish.  

Answer 11

maybe watch a show about it like "the secret life of an american teenager " it is a great show and it shows u what ur life would be like if you had a baby at 15.

and plus it is kinda normal but if you have a younger cousin or sibling or any type of younger relative and you can babysit them for like a night and you will get the feeling of being a mother

hope i helped

Answer 12

i know that babies seem great and lovely, and the moms seem all happy but you dont see them when they are back home crying, pooping, crying, staying up all night, and then pooping again. i mean, i'm 14 right now and i would never even consider having s*x for like 3 years, let alone have a baby. there is a girl my age that is pregnant in my school and she lost all of her friends and was made fun of. i just dont want to see that happen to you. you should wait until you are mature and are in a healthy, long relationship with a man. good luck :D -laura