Is this bad of my friend, or is it just me?

Question

My friend changed schools in June this year n i was really upset cos i was really close to her. I still see her evry now n then like i saw her today cos i walked home from school and met her at her bus stop half way home n i used to see her on saturdays at netball but that was basically it.

Now she has this caravan about an hour away and goes there basically EVERY weekend n if she isnt going shes going to see family in sydney or something.

But the thing is... We went there for her bday once n one of my besties got a bf up there, so the next time my other friend went, she just took the one with the bf. That time she went up there she dumped her bf. Now my friend is taking her AGAIN, noone else, not even any of my other friends, some of which havnt been at all.

I really want to go, and im scared that we're not keeping in touch anymore. And i think shes closer to the other friend cos shes taking her again. Should i feel this way ? (upset)

Please explain, 10 points will def be given out to best answer.

also, what should i do?

sorry bout the thing being so long btw. :(

Answer 1

you should tell her that you are worried about your friendship with her, and that you feel you guys are drifting apart. tell her that you want to spend more time with her and it hurts that she is only inviting your other friend.

If she isn't sympathetic or doesn't make an effort to restrengthen the friendship, then she isn't worth it!  

Answer 2

maybe she s drifted from you now and thats not anyones fault, just how it works out sometimes.

You havent rowed with her so drifting on a nice note is better than not, you say you are in a group of friends so concentrate on them for now, if shes a true friend shell be in touch, if not let her go.

I know it hurts but you havent done anything wrong so the balls in her court. gd luck :)

Answer 3

U SHOUDL TALK TO HER AND ASK WATS GOIN ON JUST SAY  "AM I NOT GD ENOUGH FOR U ANY MORE"   THAN SEE WAT SHE HAS TO SAY TAKE IT FROM THERE

Answer 4

i dont blame u for feeling upset

just talk to her and ask her whats going on.i mean i know its ol fashioned but it still works

Answer 5

i'm sorry. you should ask her if you can go this time and say that you don't think it's fair how she's only taking her other friend. i completely know how you feel. my friend rejected me as well. just tell her how you truly feel and tell her that you would like her to make an effort to keep in touch with you more often. you can make plans to meet every so often and ask her other friend if it's okay that you go to sydney instead, since she went last time. tell your friend that you were really hurt by not being invited to go this time. other wise, cheer up hon. your friendship isn't over between you and her. :]

Answer 6

just  go her place,say something ,talk a little  about past!no excuse,no explanation,if you  love your bestfriend & i think your bstfriend have a same fellings to you!

Answer 7

since she's the one that moved away your the one that really lost something. she has the opportunity to meet new ppl. anyways to answer your question yes u have a right to feel left out but this is what I would do. invite her over one weekend even if u heard she's going to the caravan thing. tell her u miss her and howmuch u wanna hang out. maybe she will invite u too. or even better skip on her plans to see you? good luck :)