I will assure you I am not trolling.
I am 19 years old, and I just moved out. However, I am sitting here thinking of my mother and how she "raised" the 3 of us. For some reason, she LOVED punishing us, like a sport. She would just wait for us to s***w up.
When my youngest sibling was potty training, she put her on the toilet--with her pants on. Then she had the audacity to say "You wet your pants!" and spanked her. She would also tell her not to, for instance, eat a cookie, right? But then she'd put it right near her, then would walk away and peep at her around the corner.
My brother, he stole some handheld video game from school and she found it. First, she made him return it and apologize--fair enough, right?She didn't stop there--she then made him apologize to the kid's parents, THEN she made him get up in front of the classroom and say that he stole from a classmate and if anything comes up missing it's probably him, THEN she made him tell the principal who dave him 2 weeks detention, THEN she beat the tar out of him THEN grounded him a month...THEN was actually going to take him to the cops but my dad said to leave them, they had more important things to deal with.
Another time I was grounded, and she kept tacking on more days for inane reasons such as walking with untied laces or forgetting to brush my teeth. What started out as 2 weeks, she'd stretch out to 3 months.
I had once gotten a job at a restaurant, and the first day I was supposed to work, she told me I wasn't allowed cause she thought I wasn't responsible, then sat with a smirk on her face as I fumed.
I can write all day long, but I don't want this to be long winded. I'm trying to understand how doing whatever you can to make your kids unhappy is good parenting, just waiting for them to s***w up so you can flaunt how powerful you are.
Or am I just spoiled? If you are a parent, I want your input.
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