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Is this bad?? please help?

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okay so there's this guy who's 3 years older than me. He has a Girlfriend but she hates me. He tells me that shes just jealous of me. He always tells me im beautiful. We talk mostly on the phone and last week he came up to see me. We were just talking at the park and then he started kissing me. My reaction was surprised and shocked. I told him to stop cuz of his gf but he didnt. He rode his bike up to see me two hours away.

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Maybe he's leaving his girlfriend. He's obviously flirting with you and likes you.

Yeah it's bad, but if you like him, tell him to stop unless he's single.

He'll get the point. If he doesn't want her, he shouldn't be leading her on while he's doing stuff with you.

Just be straight up and honest with him.
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yes it is!! hes cheating on his girlfriend with you, and she will look at it as if its all your fault. you have to tell her about it or tell him to tell her. good luck and i hope i helped!!

XOX Roxy
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Do you really want to date a guy whos so willing to drop his gf for some girl he barely knows that lives 2 hours away ??

He dropped her at the first sign of a new girl, he will do the same to you
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I was in this situation before too. It's not worth it because the guy is just making you look bad because it shows you don't have respect for girlfriends, and one day you don't want this to happen to you. You shouldn't talk to him or any other guy who has a girlfriend. Avoid him, find another guy. He is a type of guy who doesn't know what he wants. So you don't want that type of guy any way. If his doing this to his gf now, nothing will change!! I promise he will do it to you later!! Stop talking to him girl.
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I think he might like you more than is girlfriend and its not bad he kissed you not the other way around e came to see you when he could have been with his girlfriend he likes you
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well it obviously is pretty bad, but obviously you both like each other, you should tell him if he wants his girlfriend or you because he's being pretty unfair and making you feel guilty
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lol...rode his bike.

He's 15 and you're 12?

Look, in six months after you've fallen in love with him, he'll do the same thing to you.  Stay away from him:  he's dishonest, selfish, and will go out of the way to get what he wants despite who it hurts.  If you want that to happen to you, too, then you should let this develop.  If you don't, then tell him you're not interested.
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If I were in your situation I would not want to make him my BF because he's a loser he have a girl friend and still trying to come on to you. Imagine you two getting together and you fall in love but he constantly cheat it has to be heart breaking however its your choice to make so do what will make you happy. O and Yes that is bad. Hopefully his girl friend move on as well which is going to be hard if she love him.
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Sounds like to me he is trying to get his cake and eat it too. I would tell him if he wants anything more than friendship to end it with the other lady. Good luck!
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Mabey hes just falling for you

=)

its not bad,

but make sure

if hes gonna take it farther

with you he needs to make a

decision ,... you or his gf

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Well be careful of not getting into the trap, where he never leave his gf. If he stop seeing her and you like him enjoy the relationship
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He rode his bike for two hours, and you turned him down! That's bad.
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sounds like hes confused..and you're just headed for a wholeee mess of trouble..she has reason to hate you..and if you keep going with it..your as bad as he is..think of it t his way..would you REALLY want to start something with a guy who is willing to cheat?! does it really make sense to you? obviously hes one of those guys who would cheat on her to get to the next hot thing, you! then when hes done with you, he'll cheat on you and go to the next thing..why waste your time? be smart tell him to fuc* off..as "hot" or "cute" as you may think he is, find a guy who's right for you, not a guy who just likes you..its not enough, too much infidelity these days.
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in a way yes becasue she already doesnt like u and its going to get him in trouble too... i say to tell him that if he wants to continue the relationship between u two then he has to dump the other one first good luck hope everything works
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Do You Like Him? Does he like his girlfriend? Just ask yourself that. Maybe he really likes you,Kissing Following Talking on the phone..get it?
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Ummmm....she hates you cuz he talks about you. I know this for a fact! hey you got him to urself girl. lol. its not ur fault...he obviously doesnt like his GF because he wants u....just go with it. lol.
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he has a girlfriend.

he's a jerk.

you don't need someone like that.

say he were to break up w. her and get with you, he's capable of doing the same thing to you.
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its not bad on your part i'd stay away from a guy who cheats on his girlfriend though because if you get together he's bound to cheat on you no matter how much he loves or likes you
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Yes it is very bad, You should be ashamed to be hanging out with a guy like that. Dump his as a friend and find new people.
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okay i know i'm late on answering this question but here goes

you like him. yes.

he has a girlfriend, and she i jealous of you and hates you, and you wouldn't want her to hate you more than she does. but really there is no solution.

just tell the dude next time he comes to see you that "i like you (if you do) but you kissing me the other time is making me feel guilty, and i can't live with that. And it's unfair to me and your girlfriends." then you have to tell him he can't see both of you.

best of luck :)
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well i think he likes you or he cant get what he wants from his gf you should ask him and stay away from that other *****

lol good luck
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Sounds like a jerk.

1. Kissed you after you told him to stop

2. Was so horned up he rode a bike 2 hours to see you

3. Is three years older than you (in teen years, this may as well be 30 years older)

4.  HAS A GIRLFRIEND

Also remember that when the girlfriend catches wind of this (and she will), you'd better hope to not run into her.  Those cheated on rarely blame the at fault party and choose to focus rage on the other woman/man instead.
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OMG i'm was on the same situation but if he really likes his girfriend trust me he wont leave her he'll probably tell u a different thing but he wont unless he dosent really like her and he likes youuu but dont believe everything he says
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WTF! Lol joking.  Are you positive he's not a stalker or something?

If he hasn't known you for long then he shouldn't be riding his bike for 2 hours to see you.  Hate to tell you this, he's not in love.  He's obsessed.  If you ask anyone about my comment they'll 100% totally aggreee
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Yes, it is horrible because he has a girlfriend and you sort of like, agreed to kiss him because you never did anything to stop him.

So, it is bad that you would kiss him, KNOWING, knowing knowing knowing, he DOES have a girl...and he should know it was wrong himself.... dont get caught up in stuff like this, its not all that worth it, okay??

YOU BETTER HOPE HIS GIRL DOESN'T HAVE A YAHOO!ANSWERS....

:)
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hmm... well, it sounds like he likes you and everything... BUT, if he would cheat on his other girlfriend with you... he will cheat on you too. You know? I say that it is flattering that he's into you, but it's also a good display of behavior that makes him untrustworthy.
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He wants ya, from what i'm reading, probably more than his girlfriend. it might be bad if she finds out then there will be major conflict. BUT he likes you so, well i cant answer that, you can
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Tell him you can't have an afair with him unless he breaks up with his gf.
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of course it is.

he shouldn't have done that because he has a girlfriend, a living breathing girlfriend.

it's not proper.

you should try to avoid him,because if the girlfriend happens to see you with her guy,she might accuse you of stealing her boyfriend.

and that would automatically look like you're the one who's doing something wrong.

hope my advice helps.hehe.
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well its bad for his girlfriend,,..and maybe bad for you cause he's 3 years older and he might s***w you over so I advise you try and figure out if he really does like you. and watch out for his girlfriend if she hates you that much.
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Wow!  he must really like you.

anyway, hes not married.  So what you're doing is not horrible, but he owes you and the gf an explanation.  he needs to tell you what his intentions are so that he doesnt drag both of you along,  THAT would be bad.
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