Is this being a tease

Question

I stared talking to this guy i used to work with but no longer do we were texting and talking about how we need to hangout when I come home from vacation. first of all i have no idea what we would do since weve never seen eachother outside of work but used to always flirt at work, anyways the topic of speedos came up and he said hed wear one for me so i said when we hangout and he said no privately... so i said that it sounded tempting but he didnt believe me so i said like cant a girl wonder and he said i dont have to wonder so then i asked when can i stop wondring and he said when i wanna stop and come c for my self in person... im not sure how to take all this. was i being a tease...what do his motives seem to be cause before this we always flirted but not very sexually.

Answer 1

It sounds like his motives are now sexual. It's not being a tease unless you talk about things that you are unwilling to do when it comes down to it.