Is this common or not?

Question

Is it normal for a 4 year old boy to have an "accident" in his pants while he is getting a spanking?

My son has this happen to him sometimes.

Has or does your son (or your friends son) ever had this happen to them while they were getting a spanking?

Answer 1

the spanking must be to rough I believe in a good spanking when needed I spank my daughter but she has never wet herself tone it down a bit.

Answer 2

do you sit down and speak with him before you spank him? or do you just snatch him up and spank him?

of course, spanking should ALWAYS be done calmly, rationally, and out of love. send him to the bathroom to pee first, then when he comes back talk w/ him about how he disobeyed, then give him his spanking, then hug him tight until he stops crying

Answer 3

obviously you are scaring him by spanking him dont be so rough explain and be leuniant you are obviously scaring him so bad he wets himself

Answer 4

Yea, that's not normal.

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How hard are you spanking him and why is it taking so long that he's urinating "while" he gets a spanking? A spanking should be one slap on the bum. If you do it any longer than that, it is abuse, not spanking.

Answer 5

yeah you are probably just scaring him by spanking him to hard. keep in mind that this is a 4 year old and he is still really delicate. from now on just try to talk to him to ask what's bothering him instead of going straight to the punishment. (yes i have been watching nanny 911 lol) good luck hope this helps! = D