I'm currently reading "Toddler Adoption: The Weaver's Craft" by Mary Hopkins-Best. What do you think of this passage?
"In her book, 'Adopting After Infertility', Pat Johnston describes a helpful process for developing an adoption plan:
1. Personal reflection about adoption's losses and your feelings about them.
2. Sharing your discoveries about yourself with your partner.
3. Discussing ways to blend your separate needs and wishes in order to select a consensus or compromise course of action.
4. Gathering information about the options you find of interest.
5. Inventorying personal resources - time, money, emotional energy, and physical capacity.
6. Building a detailed plan for pursuing that course of action - developing strategies, assigning tasks.
7. Pursuing the course of action.
8. Evaluating and adjusting the plan as needed."
Does this process sufficiently meet the emotional needs of the PAP's, and does it address EVERYTHING that PAP's should consider?
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