Is this fate and if so what should I do?

Question

I ended things with a friend about a year ago b/c I wasn't returning the friendship(I was being disloyal, no integrity etc). of course all that has changed since then but it's beside the point. So I was just thinking about how I wanted a 2nd chance and then 2 seconds later she calls me!! How weird is that. It's been like an eternity and all of a sudden she calls me. But here's the twist she doesn't know who I am at least that's what she says. I guess she was going through her contacts and trying to figure out who's number it was. So how can I play this out b/c i kno her calling me was a complete accident. Do i still tell her who i am even though she may be disappointed when she learn its me or should i just ignore the msg to avoid confusion what should i do?

Answer 1

Firstly,  no, it's not fate, it's choice based upon free will, based upon instincts, combined with sheer coincidence.

Secondly,  if you already concede that you've shown a lack of integrity and loyalty,  then in my view it would be best to be as honest and open as possible,  and just see where it goes from there.  Time can heal many wounds.

Answer 2

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. A journey that takes a lifetime to complete begins with a single step.