Is this fate...and if so what should i do?

Question

I ended things with a friend about a year ago b/c I wasn't returning the friendship(I was being disloyal, no integrity etc). of course all that has changed since then but it's beside the point. So I was just thinking about how I wanted a 2nd chance and then 2 seconds later she calls me!! How weird is that. It's been like an eternity and all of a sudden she calls me! But here's the twist she doesn't know who I am at least that's what she says. I guess she was going through her contacts and trying to figure out who's number it was. So how can I play this out b/c i know her calling me was a complete accident. Do i still tell her who i am even though she may be disappointed when she learn its me or should i just ignore the msg to avoid confusion what should i do?

Answer 1

Honesty is the best policy. Tell her who you are, what happened, and explain how you have changed. Share your feelings about the situation and see if you can rebuild the friendship you once had.

Not everyone gets a second chance to repair something that happened in the past. Take advantage of this opportunity to mend fences. :)

Answer 2

No, its not fate, since fate is a fiction. Also, only drama queens say "for an eternity" when speaking of events that covered under a *billion years*.

Maybe she prefers friends who can count the number of years that they have lived with some accuracy.

In any case, she called to see who was on her cell. Tell her, and if you have anything else to say to her, say it. Whats to lose ? If you stay silent, shes out of your life, so even if she says no to what you say, you won't be any worse than that.

Be less of a drama chicken...

Answer 3

Why is this question in the spiritually and religion? But you should just make up with her. It's that easy! :-)