Is this first anniversary idea good or bad?

Question

First of all, I came up with this idea because it wouldn't cost a lot of money (versus eating at a restaurant) and because between us we have 3 kids and sometimes it is hard to find a babysitter. Plus, my husband says he really loves my cooking.

I read somewhere that the first anniversary gift is paper, so I thought about getting some fancy paper and printing a menu of things he especially likes and letting him "order" off the menu at home (this way, he can save the menu because he likes to save things like love notes, cards, etc that I've given him in the past). I plan to throw in special things like a homemade dessert and a bottle of wine and candles all over the kitchen and table to make it romantic. Now I'm second guessing myself and wondering if this is a dumb idea and/or if I should do something else that is better or more exciting.

What do you guys think?

Answer 1

Cute idea.

I've been married for 2 years and have 6 kids, talk about fruit flies!!

AND they are all ours together!

Answer 2

I like the idea I would love that! Its cute,fun and romantic!

Answer 3

Its a good idea.  Make him dress up (jacket and tie).

Don't forget "dessert"

Answer 4

The gnome is a chef ( no kidding )

Any questions on the how or when.... Cooking wise.

email me.

Best wishes............. Rev Gnome.

Answer 5

It's an excellent idea....and an original one at that...I think it has the potential to be a very memorable evening. Congratulations Kiwi....you're a lovely woman with a lovely family.  

Answer 6

Sweet

Answer 7

Y wuld u second guess yourself?? Thats sounds absolutely wonderful and a very special way to celebrate your first anniversary!

Since u say that he likes to keep things likes notes and stuff, i think he must be romantic too, so i honestly think he will love it!

Well done, that is really something great to have thought of!

Answer 8

A Very Good Idea.

Go with it. Your effort will really touch your husband's heart.

Answer 9

Sounds like a great idea. I'd make the menu include a little poem or something, or a little paragragh about how it's your first "paper' anniversary. It'd be very cute!