Is this flirting?????????

Question

Im 16 and i really don't know how to flirt. i don't even know how to tell if a guy is flirting with me or not it is really sad.

can someone tell me if this is flirting or not?

i was coaching my little sister's basketball team and i accidentally threw the ball at one of the girl's head. this guy about my age was there said "So you're throwing balls at kids now?" (jokingly) i laughed and said yea.

i was doing a project in one of my classes and this guy said to his friend sitting next to him loudly but jokingly "Does this girl know anything?" i laughed and said yea..( I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE IM SUPPOSED TO DO!)

these are just 2 incidents are these considered flirting?? how do i know if they are flirting and if they like me or not? both guys i hardly even know. thank you. and could you tell me what i should say when they do this stuff? especially if i like one of them because i do.

Answer 1

the first one is definetly flirting

Answer 2

It's low-level flirting.

If you want them to step it up a notch, you have to flirt back a little bit.

If you flirt back too much, you will scare them away.

Answer 3

Usually flirting consists of just joking around. If a boy jokingly punches you or pretends to 'fight' you it's considered flirting. It's just messing around. You can tell if they're flirting if they stay close to you and if they have a joking tone of voice. If you like them, just joke back and have a friendly banter.

Answer 4

yes it is