I was friends with a girl last year,we were really close about 1 1/2 years. She is that type of girl that whenever she got a boyfriend she would jump.That is one reason we stopped hanging out,well not the only reason, I guess we were to dependent on each other and it wasnt healthy.Well we reconnected about 2 months ago(if that long).she has a boyfriend for about 10 months.She felt she could come to me with some of the problems,they even broke up at one point and he agian supposely cheated on her last weekend(no proof,someone saw him with another woman) so she was so upset she called me crying everyday this week..It seemed she would only go out with me in the past month to either show him she can do things with a friend(she has no other friends but me) or if he made other plans. Well They had a big fight and he never called her friday to hang out(they had plans) so I brought lunch up sunday and she later wrote lets definetly do lunch.We talked about an outdoor place.Well yesturday her and the boyfrieind got back together and now she cancelled lunch,meanwhile i felt bad for her so I cancelled other plans to have lunch.She said she was going to the beach,but she slept there last night at his house,Im not stupid. I feel like Im her backup plan,she mentioned labor day she had no kids,but now she is talking being with him that weekend since there back.i feel very used.Im supposed to watch her kids for a wedding she has in a few weeks, that I felt also was inapproprate asking since we just reconnected.Im so mad I dont even want to be her friend of convience anymore.But she met him when we were not speaking,am I wrong here? Do I just ignore her call?When she cancelled,it was texted and I didnt respond.I had texted her what time for lunch.
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