Is this girl worth dating?????

Question

she said she smokes pot once or twice a month. Im a criminal justice major and i find that unethical and very irresponsible. But, i really care about her. should i just look past what she does and see her for who she really is?

Answer 1

well....never look on the outside, always look for who the real person is on the inside.

If you care for her and want to be with her then go for it, lifes to short to worry about that, if you like her then go after her

Answer 2

i'm in your same boat. i DONT smoke and i hate being around people who do it. i mean, if you really care about her, just let her know your hang up with it, and tell her you a) don't wish to be around her when she does it, and b) if it becomes more of a problem then things wouldn't work out, but i mean, if its something you think you can look past, if not, then she isnt the right one

Answer 3

pot really isnt that big of a deal. especially if its only 2 times a month. obviously its only a social thing, if she said 2 times a day then she is a pothead and id say stay away. but if its just a social thing it will become less and less with time. so no worries

Answer 4

Why do people make such a big deal about pot. Alcohol is way worse then pot. It will kill you plus its makes you act even more idiotic. Its just pot. Get over it.  

Answer 5

sure why not but stop and think first

Answer 6

that is who she really is!!! it may b illegal but as long as she doesnt push it on u i wouldnt give up on her.

Answer 7

if you think it can become a issue later and you think u are going to try n "change" her then.. i say no bc why would u wann go into something where you know the outcome is not good. Plus it kinda contradicts you so hmm mybe.. you can try it so u dont feel like you didnt and you dont wonder "what if" but if its something u feel strong about you should know that ppl that do that wont drop their habit so easy. good luck

Answer 8

The problem is that you will never be able to look past it!  So, like her has a friend and let her find someone who will love her for her.

Answer 9

you should just help her out..

maybe she will stop!

good luck

Answer 10

i think she is still the same person even if she still smokes pot a little i mean u still like her just because she smokes a little ur not gonna like her anymore if u like her then there should be nothin else that matters right