Is this guy shy or just stuck up? ?

Question

Today in my class, my teachers wanted us to take out our textbooks. I didn't have my book today and this cute guy next to me did but he didn't ask me if I wanted to sit with him and share. He just sat there and kept looking at his own book without looking at me.

Was I suppose to ask him or was he suppose to approach me? I kind of feel bad because he knew I didn't have a book but did not offer to share... and I thought he was cute too. So is it because he only cares about himself or was I suppose to ask since I don't have the book?

Answer 1

well if i was aware i may have offered my book if you were good looking. because if you were not and he offered people around you two might get the wrong idea and things get complicated. sorry for sounding really shallow as i know i probably am. but anyways there is the possibility that he is real shy, you couldve tried asking him and judging by his answer you couldve decided if he was shy or stuckup

Answer 2

It depends. You wouldn't know that until you take the first step. I am shy, so I know how it feels to be judged as "stuck up" when I'm just not a good friend-maker. Not because I'm mean, but because I'm shy and don't know how to make conversations with others. I really need to work on that ;) Anyway, next time, ask him if he could share the book with you. Don't give up on a person by the way you THINK they are. Get to know them; hopefully you judged wrong and the cute guy is nice and generous, not stuck up and mean.