I'm 17, female...a few years ago I moved to a larger city where my Aunt and cousin live. I'd visited my cousin on lots of trips before when I was younger, but we hadn't had any contact since then, apart from the occasional e-mail. I was really looking forward to becoming close with her, she's 19 and in University....but since I've moved here, I always find myself suggesting that we meet up and do something. She usually replies to my texts with 'sure! sounds great.' and she sounds enthusiastic...but when we meet up, I feel like she's a bit distant. Even though she's friendly, she doesn't act like a cousin "should". I feel like I'm making all the effort to see her, and she's not really interested.
Is this normal? I don't try and see her all the time...it's only a couple times a month or so that I summon the courage to actually ask her if she wants to hang out. Should I just forget about it? I feel that because we're living in the same city, and we're cousins, we should hang out every now and again. I like her, but I feel like I'm making a fool out of myself by contacting her?
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