We have been married for about a month now and wanted to share something. This past Sunday, my wife and I briefly talked about seeing the new Batman movie. A few hours later, she said "so you just wanna skip the movie and do it another time?" I said "sure" while under the impression that she wanted to bag the idea too. Well she got real moody and I asked what the matter was and she insisted that there was nothing wrong. About 10 minutes later, she grabs her purse and starts walking out the door. Well turns out she was going to go see the movie by herself..I felt tricked here..Like she wanted to go by herself but never told me she wanted to go when I said we could go another time. So she left and at this point i'm really pissy. Well she calls me asking if she should get a ticket so I said ok and when I got there, she acted like nothing happened (which is what she does from time to time in circumstances like that) Should I have not gone and let her be? This conflict still just confuses me. We did talk about it but she does not like to talk about things when I confront her about it. So it was basically dropped. Just wanted to share and see if anyone has any input.
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