Is this love?? Or time?? ?

Question

Well before my boyfriend would say many swete things but they didnt seem genuine. recentlly i threatened to break up with him and it gave him a huge scare...well anyways now he just looks at me differently. like hes always asking, are you okay? are u happy right now..what do you want to do right now?? What are you thinking>??

These comments have been flooding in and before when we first started talking he was so self centered like i would bring up a problem he would kind of shake it off now hes so concerned with everything i have to say

why did he change...is he falling in love with me?? What is making him fall in love...time?? I bguess weve been growing closer over time but i keep thinking something must of changed to make him do this but i think its just time...

Answer 1

the only person who knows why hes doing this is him, go and ask him.

Answer 2

He was scared he would lose you so he changed for you. Its love i think!

Answer 3

sounds like he is just scared of losing you but i think it depends on how old u two are....its differcult to answer because if ur young than most likely he just scared but if ur way old than he is probably playing his cards right and getting u were he wants

Answer 4

he doesn't want to lose you. He took you for granted before and now that he realizes that you can leave he appreciates you more.  

Answer 5

yes you definitely scared him and he knows he could have lost you so he's doing a lot to make sure you happy with him, it might be a little reverse psychology on his part, just wait it through, let him know that he doesnt always have to check on you and that your fine and happy with whatever your doing this will pass im sure, he isnt going to spend months acting like that, just wait it out

Answer 6

He seems a bit needy and self-concious. Either way, give it more time because I definitely wouldn't say it sounds like love just yet.

Answer 7

i think hes scared about u breaking up with him.

u should sit down with him and just talk things through. tell him about the guy you liked/loved when you started dating and ask him if he can turn into that person again

Answer 8

just be direct, if learned that is the only way to make a relationship work. don't say your going to do something& scare them.

he might not want to lose you& the reason why he's doing this is because maybe he doesn't want to be alone. i don't know if there is love, maybe you should ask.

think about what your going to say.

Answer 9

He just changed so you wouldn't break up with him is what it sounds like. It could be that he is falling in love with you, but I wouldnt doubt it if he wasnt. Time could of made him change, however did you look at the possibility that he just doesnt want to be left. Atleast how youre explaining it thats how it sounds to me.

Hope this helps.  

Answer 10

on the real this cat is scared now from what you have said about breakiing up with him. And yes it seems that he has fallen hard for you cuz now he's like more attentive on how you feel in that moment for you won't fight and you leave him but on the true the question is are you fallin 4him as well as he is for you ??

Answer 11

he probably realizes that he really does care about you... Time may be the reason hes falling in love with you or maybe he really loves you the way u are...He probably doesnt wanna break up with you and now that he realizes that its a possibility he wants to make sure u wont..hope this helps..=]

Answer 12

In this equation your BF is not the only one who is self centered.

You say you scared him by threatening to break up because you didn't appreciate the way he treated or talked to you?

Hey, how do you treat or talk to him.  You sound like you want him with a ring through his nose.

A good relationship is a two way street. A real partnership.

Make up your mind. Are you playing with him or is he a keeper?