Is this mean or helpful?

Question

I was with my boy-friend and we were talking about weight. And he told me that I need to lose weight in my stomach area and I then became upset because he always tells me how beautiful I am and how gorgeous I look and that I don't need to change any thing about me because he loves me the way I am. But does he really?

Answer 1

Your boyfriend was being honest. Do you want this honest boyfriend to father your children and hate your belly when you have baby weight to lose? He needs to grow up, or you need to lose him. You should talk to him (rationally) about it first.

Answer 2

Have you gained weight? I would appreciate his honesty, but that's how I am. I feel honesty is under-rated. I just think people should practice tact, along with their honesty. It sounds like he really thinks you're beautiful but remember, even the most beautiful people still have flaws they need to work on.  

Answer 3

Tell him to grow a bigger p***s :-)