Is this normal 4 my 12 year old daughter to act like this about boys?

Question

My 12 year old daughter has always been very sweet, hardly ever cusses, and never talks about dirty things, but has ALWAYS been boy crazy. Though recently she has started liking other things about boys, besides their smiles and their eyes, she also likes their "package" their "***" and she loves pics of guys shirtless and in their underwear, uhhh wtf? Is this normal? What's happened?

Answer 1

I wouldn't be worried about your daughter.  I think this is a natural part of growing up and she is probably just getting to the age where she "appreciates" boys.

Seems like anywhere from 12 to 14 is when you can expect this to happen.

Obviously at 12 you don't want her impulses to translate into actions so I would keep communicating with her, tell her that her feelings and interests are very natural, but also give her some good guidance about staying away from s*x.

Good luck.

Answer 2

the sad thing is that it's perfectly normal

but you should definitely be cautious

Answer 3

I suppose it is.  She is a young woman and is starting to see men as most women do.  And now a days TV is so sexualized, it can only be expected.  I am only 22 and I can for the most part remember being that age, thats about the time I started seeing boys in a more sexual manner.  And back then s*x wasn't sprawled out everywhere as much as it is now.  If you haven't had a s*x talk with her yet I would consider doing it soon!  Good luck hun!

Answer 4

if your a parent you're pretty savvy in your native teen tongue. anyway it is normal for girls and boys to start noticing other things about the opposite sexes around 12 because most start puberty then. curiosity is the key factor, everyone goes through it.

Answer 5

Bit much for a 12 year old id say, My old neighbours daughter was the same, absolutly by crazy, its all she ever talked about. She had a baby at 14, so id be careful!

Answer 6

My curiosity peaked at around 14 and 15 for me. 12 was a naive and innocent year for me.Yet it is perfectly normal. I wonder those things when I get around cute girls.

Answer 7

it is perfectly normal. at this age the kids are going through pueberty and they are very curious. they want to noe wht the others look like. it isperfectly normal as long as it doesn't get carried away to s*x and stuff. but other wise this is normal. i bet the boys she's looking at look at her chest and butt. so it is normal human behavior. don't ignore it but don't encourage it. just be like paying attention and look over ur daughter as much as u can. this way u will noe wht she is looking at and wht she is doing

Answer 8

I was like that at 12 .I'm 16 btw now and still a virgin so you nothing to worry about:)