I am in the process of adopting my step-children. Their bio mom has now moved back and lives in the same very small town we do. She threw a fit when she found out we were going to terminate her rights, but now she totally ignores the kids. It is infuriating to me that she will walk right past them in Wal-mart and not even acknowledge them. Is that NORMAL? Why did she start to fight the adoption(she consented when she found out it would do away with her paying support)? I don't understand, and it hurts me to see my kids hurt this way! I really don't want her to talk to them, but I would NEVER say that to her. We even did an open adoption, but she has to pass drug tests to see the kids(she has never wanted to). Yesterday she was in the same room with my son for 15 minutes, and ignored him totally. He has not seen her in over three years, and due to drugs, she looks quite different, but he asked me later if it was her. I was SO tempted to lie! Anyone else experience this?
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