Ok i've recently meet a person who claims she wants a man who will value her, respect her, treat her nice and to be loyal to her.
On the other hand she lost her virginity at 15 (quite normal for in the UK) but has slept with 17 different guys by the time she was 18
She was once raped by one of her ex sexual partners, she sleeps half the day, currently doesnt work but states is looking to work again, has loads of male friends (which some girls find it easier to socialise with boys then girls)
Now ive tried telling this girl shes not going to meet some one who is going to respect her.
Shes sent me videos of her self playing with toys and pictures and also intimate convos on the phone.
She wants to carry on having s*x buddies and will settle with some one when she finds the right guy.
She online chatting to people on a dating site and putting images of her self up in her underware
She also asked me what sort of pictures she should put to look good on this website, I suggested fully clothes with seductive poses leave more to the imagination and is likely to get guys who are willing to get to know her and respect her rather than just after s*x. She didnt follow this advise and has posted pictures of her self in her underware
Now me personally im not interested, but whats your opinion
Finally the girl is an attractive girl and could find some one easily who would respect her, but I believe her way of going about it is attracting the wrong sort of guys and that not all girls are like this, the purpose of this question is for you guys to have your say from surrey or not of all ages and genders
The girl is entitled of cause to do what she wants and life life the way she wants but is my opinion wrong in me trying to help her achieve what she wants
My Questions....
a) Would you want to settle with a girl like this (Guys)
b) Would you respect a girl who does this? (Both)
c) Girls what do you think of this girl? (Girls)
d) Is this normal for surrey girls as she claims it is? (Both)
e) Do you think shes likely to get raped or in a predicament again?
f) Do you agree with my points?
g) Are you from Surrey or elsewhere
h) Male or female and Age
i) Parent or Single Individual
j) Am I wrong in the advise I gave her
k) Your personal thoughts as a whole (which will be what I will be basing the best answer on)
I would post the images but I feel its not appropiate for people of all ages and the girl shoudnt have her identity platestered all over the place
I think shes confused specially with whats happened and is going about affection in the wrong ways
Please and your question as in this example
a) Yes or No and why
b) Yes or No and why
c) Your opinion as girls
d) Yes or No
e) Yes or No
f) Yes or No
g)State where your answering from in the world (Preferably surrey as she states all girls from that area or the majority are like this)
h) Male or Female
i) If your a parent or not
j) Yes or No
k) I think....
Finally if you was to ask her education....
She was always skiving off school and only got entered for 2 GCSEs and was always out smoking draw (Marijuana)
She doesnt have a kid to my knowledge, seems to be froma poor background for what ive gathered
Her mom uses the same dating site and she also offers nude or erotic pics of her self very upfront but at the same time her mom has told me off for believing me to be a male after one thing with her and they have only gone on sites like that for a bit of a laugh
Please your views to help settle an argument from a friend
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