Is this normal for a 16 year old?

Question

Occasionally, I get these feelings that my friend will somehow worsen my day. If something stupid happens(not ALL the time) I get this odd, creepy feeling it might have been her. I be especially generous/nice if I think it was her so that she won't do it again. Whenever I say she'll 'somehow' worsen my day, I mean not in the physical sense.

Whenever something stupid happens and I think it might've been her..I feel like I must've p.issed her off somehow for her to do that. But I don't do anything. It's hard to explain.

If something does happen, I think my shirt may have caused it. So, I don't wear that certain shirt for a while until it feels 'safe' again. I know it seems superstitious, but I don't go around wearing 'lucky necklaces' and things.

Please don't say I blame my problems on her. I see how it can seem like that..but I don't sit there and think "Oh, I feel bad, time to blame things on my friend" It's this creepy feeling that she is doing things. It's a burden. I haven't told her this. I keep it to myself.

one last thing: I sometimes sense this malevolent presence in my bedroom. I know that sounds stupid but it is also sometimes a burden. Just feel hatred towards me in there.

Answer 1

its normal i had it just look spend about 1 month just talking 2 her somtimes when u see her but stay away from her for about a month and things will be ok  

Answer 2

This thinking is not typical for a person 16 years of age.  It appears to be magical thinking, outside the laws of cause and effect or physics.  I suggest that you seek therapy, probably from a psychiatrist, and talk this out.  Really, sometimes things just happen.  It's life.  Thinking it is outside of our ability to cope or manage it does not help, and attributing events to unseen forces removes us from an obligation to face the obstacles that may be a normal part of life.  The only forces preventing us from managing these events are inside outr own brains, and that includes any malevolent forces.  The good news is that we can banish them and replace them with angelic forces, and the angels are inside us as well.  

Answer 3

You'll probably outgrow this, but it definitely does sound like a burden. Talk it through with someone.