Is this normal or is he just too paranoid?

Question

my boyfriends builds bikes custom low rider like so they're really neat, but his got stolen the other day, and he spent a lot of time and money on it, so i was worried and my moms got stolen from the same place a few months back, so i went looking where her bike was found and i found it near there. i was really excited that he got his bike back, but when he got home from work he was still mad and then accused me of stealing it, ******* it up and returning it. for one thing i was in bed with him all that night, second idon't know how to do anything to a bike besides ride it and it really hurt my feelings. does it make sense? does he sound right? am i in the wrong to be mad at him over this? i guess hes over it now, but is he ever going to trust me? what the h**l should i do?

Answer 1

i think that he has a serious problem. he shouldnt be blaming you. he should appreciate you for finding it and trust you completely. and you should tell him the truth about how you might have known where it was, sincerely, not angrily because if you say it angrily instead of being calm, he might not believe you.