Is this normal teen behavior or am I insane.?

Question

I told my mom i hated her wish she got in a car accident and died. I said this yesterday and i still wish it happened. i hate her so much if she died i would be so happy . shes such a *****. she grounded me for finding her lost bike! shouldnt i be rewarded for it! what a *****!

Answer 1

You seriously need to be slapped until you bleed. You owe everything you are to your parents. GROW UP!!!!

Answer 2

i think its normal that ur angry at ur mom for what she did, but no matter how pissed u are, u just gotta remember that she's an adult and will never get us teens.

Answer 3

its normal. your just over reacting because youve got more going on in your life than just ur mom bugging the s h i t outta you. just take a breather. stay at a friends house and just vent youll see that its no big deal and that you should go talk it out with your mom. she also over reacted cuz getting mad at you for finding her bike is weird but im thinkin there is more behind that story than you are telling

good luck!

Answer 4

No your not insane, every teen goes through that

phase that their mom/dad is the worst person alive,

and they wish the worst things on them no matter what.

at the end ya know ya dont mean it.

Answer 5

dont say that about ur mom because she loves u but u should tell someone how she treats u

Answer 6

Normal teen behaviour is to have extreme and passionate emotions. Or be disinterested in everything. And to fight with one's parents. Teens change so much in just a few years that things can get really wild. That's normal. I don't know what your relationship is like with your mom; if you're both trying to be decent kids or mothers. Maybe your mother has some serious problems, or maybe she is just super stressed out and took it out on you. Maybe you wished her dead in anger and haven't cooled off yet. Or maybe you're psychotic (although if you're aware enough of your behaviour to ask if you're normal you probably are).  

But I can say this: my mom died from cancer when I was a teen and let me tell you it really, really sucks. The family gets broken and never quite recovers. And it still hurts years and years later. I would give up almost anything to have one more day with her.

Adults forget how hard it is to be a teen. And you have no idea how hard it is to be a mother. Please go talk to her.

Answer 7

your insane. she is the one who gave birth to you and raised you, so pick your head up and find your dropped dignity you *****.

Answer 8

a guy i like lost his moms bike and found it and was grounded also thats wierd that its the same

Answer 9

okay she was rude but by saying that you have no maners(get some toilet paper you'll need it to get your head outta your ***)

Answer 10

Since we are only hearing your side of the story, it's hard to answer.

Answer 11

read this...this was my question a month ago. maybe youll think more about saying that. you may wish after she is gone that you had her....

you should never wish that...no matter what. i cant believe what im reading..

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 12

Hate is such a horrible word and even more horrible that you would not only say but wish such a thing on your mom.  My mom and I are not close to say the least but I would never say such a disrespectful thing to her.  If you were my child that statement leaving your mouth would have gotten you a lot more than a grounding.

Answer 13

sometimes i say it..but i love my mom too much to mean it

Answer 14

There is defnitely something wrong for being punished on finding something that was once lost.

But you also should'nt be cursing you're mother she gave bitrh to you. And there are kids out there who dont have parents. And would simply love it to be grounded.

Just because they are deprived of their mothers.father's love.

Answer 15

no it's not normal, im sure theres more to it then just finding the lost bike. you need to get councling my friend

Answer 16

Your insane for saying those things to your mom. If she really did get in a car accident and died you would feel so bad. You really need to learn so d*** manners.

Answer 17

i never say it to her but sometimes i think it. but i usually get over within a couple of hours.

Answer 18

she sounds like a ***** to me so you should walk up and slap her in the face with a dead fish and call her a c**k sucker.

Answer 19

you need serious help!

Answer 20

If your 13 years old and feel this way, you aren't going en sane, its just puberty. You will be feeling these feelings for awhile. If your like, 18 years old...Then your en sane. But, since your a teen, it is...a little bit normal. Most teens feel this way.

Answer 21

shes your mom she had you!!  without her there would be no u

Answer 22

*respect for the dead* -_-

Answer 23

I don't think that you should wish she was dead or anything because if something did happen then you would feel really guilty, but I also understand why you are so angry at her.  If you did nothing wrong, then you should not be punished and you should be thanked for finding her bike.  I think that you are a pretty normal teenager.  Your probably still angry for being punished and that is why you are still having these angry thoughts, but I think over time your anger at her will decrease, however if it doesn't then I would suggest maybe family therapy or something like that.  It is normal for you to be angry at your mother, I know many people including me that have thought of their mothers as a *****, but that doesn't mean that I still don't love her, it's just  that we had a disagreement or something.

Answer 24

I've never said anything like that to my parents.  I was raised to respect them and their authority.

This is partially her fault, for not raising you better to respect her, but it is your as well.  She gave birth to you, she obviously provides for you.  Have a little respect.  She usually knows best.

Answer 25

MM i don't think it's normal, you should go to therapy i think it might help you guys get closer.

Answer 26

look that duz saund crazy but  if ur just thinking of bad times  with her then ur going to stay mad at her just think of good times (if u had) and say sorry cuz  u say u mean it but u dont  cuz that had hapend to me

Answer 27

i think you should talk to a counselor and your mom should go with you so that the counselor can give you some advice AND your mom.good luck!!!

Answer 28

dude you need serious counseling...you only get one mother