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Is this normal ? your advice is appreciated !!

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i have 4 kids and dont want any more. my question is what do i do now?

i seem to be a bit lost at what to do? why do i feel like this ?

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  1. It is normal.  If you don't want to have anymore kids, then you don't want to have anymore kids.  It is that simple.  There is nothing wrong with that.  Some people want A LOT of kids.  Some people want just one.  It is all a matter of personal preference and what you feel comfortable with.  

    If you are having anxiety, then I suggest talking to someone professionally.  A counselor can help you deal with the anxiety and you can then focus more on the beautiful children that you have now.  It will make all of your lives that much better.  My only question, what does your husband/ partner think about not having any more children.  You should speak with them as well.

    As for not having any more children, there are many options that you can pursue.  There are birth control pills, the birth control patch, birth control shots.  You can have your tubes tied, or your husband/ partner can have a vasectomy.  Talk to your Doctor about all the options available to you.  

    Good luck with your decision and please see your doctor and a counselor to help you with the anxiety.  For you benefit and your children!  


  2. try taking pills so you dont get pregnant. and focus on your kids. some parents feels happy / delighted having kids.  

  3. get your tubes tied you wont get pregnant anymore

  4. Are you suffering depression?Post-natal or otherwise?

    You didn't state how old your children are. Post a bit more detail and i'll come back and look.

    Oh,and where do you live?UK?

    :o)

  5. Ofcourse you feel lost, this is the end of a big part of your life. Obviously your kids and being a mum are important to you so maybe thats why it hurts more. Best thing to do is get some interests outside of the family, be it sport, church, work etc... They will grow up and leave home one day so best to create a life for yourself beyond them so it will be easier.

  6. enjoy  your  kids..and  use birth  control

  7. it is

    birth control

    tubes tied

    the doctor will go over a few things with you if you decide to get something done

  8. Well you could go on the pill, or I know here in Oz there is a chip you can get that is like a premament pill.
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