Is this okay to do?

Question

Well, My 14 year old daughter wants to go to disneyland, with out me or her mother, she wants to go with 2 of her friends alone.

Is this okay to do?

She is responsable and so are her friends,

her friends already have the money..

I want to get her to , but im just worried how will they do everything? she shown me she was responsable..

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Answer 1

14?!?

geez my mother would never let me do that

but if you guys lived close to disney land then yea but if it was like a plane trip/car trip then i wouldnt think..

it just depends on what you guys think about it

Answer 2

Don't let her do it!

Answer 3

well i would let her go but heres the fun part you go with her but let her go around the park with her friends make sure she has a cell phone at all times and her friends to if you want so you can ahve a way to get in contact if needed so you will let her have her freedom but you will be able to get a hold of her if needed and you'll be there just in case she needs you she's only 14 she needs to spread her wings but first the small things when she gets older lossen up a little it may seem harsh but you'll be within reason

Answer 4

Do you live near Disneyland or would this be like an out of town trip?

If she is truly responsible and it is a local thing, then I would let her. Not only will it reward her for being responsible but it will show you trust her and at that age trust is a HUGE thing.

Answer 5

if anything happens to your daughter, it would be your fault..i think the safest thing to do is have the parents go with them... at the park..split up and meet up from time to time to check on them..they prob need more money too...lots of 14 year olds have fun at disneyland with their family...why would they want to go alone...plus...14 can't be hold responsible for anything they do..but an adult is....

Answer 6

Honestly, you should let her go with her friends because not only is she responsible, but also her friends. It would be different if she was responsible but both her friends weren't. Besides, if you let her go with her friends, she'll have the freedom to become more independent for the future, and so will her friends-but your daughter is more important! When she is a full adult, she will be able to know what it's like in the real world when she's with someone her age who also grows up with her...

Answer 7

If it was in the same town as you.  If you had all the info on the other friends like their name and their parents info.  If it was during the day and they came back that evening.  If your daughter has a cell phone and she will check in with you every couple of hours.  I wouldn't see why not.

Answer 8

Disneyland rots your brain...so don't let her go. Not with you, not with anyone.

Answer 9

Let her go, 14 is an age were they try to prove they are responsible and mature. But just to be safe, call the friends parents to doble check with them that they know what is going on. =))) God Luck in the long run!!!

Answer 10

Would it just be a day trip?

Answer 11

Is it close that is will be a day trip? If so, a day away seems fine. If the trip means long distance to drive or fly, it does not seem like a good idea. Too young to be on their own.

Answer 12

NO WAY - not at 14  no matter how mature or responsible she is !!!

Answer 13

Trust your gut - if you were okay with it you wouldn't be asking this. I say no way - that is way too young!!

Answer 14

I wouldn't let my daughter unless I was in the park and she was armed with her cell phone and I had mine. That way she could call and meet up from time to time. Why don't you go, too? It's a blast. I would live in Cinderella's Castle if I could.