Is this possible for a person...?

Question

to be asexual, having no intentions with being with either genders? I'm not saying that i am asexual, g*y, or bi, but i just haven't been interested in guys(or girls) lately since i broke up with my boyfriend.

i mean my friends would say stuff like "omg isn't that guy hot?" and i would just go eh, whatever and go back to what i was doing.

so would i be considered asexual? if im wrong could u clarify or restate it for me

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Answer 1

Mm, I think what you're saying is like comparing someone feeling sad after their dog dies with someone who has an actual case of depression.

Being asexual is, as far as I understand it, about as inherent to somebody as being heterosexual or g*y. Not just someone losing their s*x drive for a while because they're getting out of a relationship!

Give it a bit of time :)

Answer 2

No ur not asexual. Relax your body has been through allot lately and with breaking up and is probably in shut down mode your not ready yet to go out withsome so your body is protecting yourself from getting hurt again.

Enjoy being around people and maybe a person might spark some feeling. Love/sexual attraction seems to only happen when were not looking for it...thus is life.

Also dont beat yourself up over not being interested in it at the moment some people go years without meeting someone. Learn to accept that sometimes in your life you jsut dont want to do something.

Just concentrate on having fun, that will kick start your brain into having better thoughts and being happy and happy people are more likely to be in a  realtionship and be attractive/attracted to the oppopsite s*x.

All the best

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Answer 3

Not at all! I remember when I broke up with my girlfriend of three years, I hate her >_<, I didnt really care about other girls. Girls just didnt seem attractive to me and I was a little afraid of them. It wasnt that I wasnt interested in them, I have another girlfriend now, I just wasnt ready. I was not only apathetic towards the other gender, but a little angry as well.

I'm not sure about what you went through, but I was deeply hurt. I felt vulnerable and weak. Thats why I believe I didnt find any girls attractive for a little while. Dont worry, you're still the same person. You just arnt ready to be looking at other guys yet. Give your self some time. I wasnt sure how long I would feel that way, but its more than over now.  

Answer 4

So?!  What is unusual about this?  People go through different phases during their life.  So, some guy is Hot.  Everybody doesn't think so.  Some people just say things like that to get you to look at him.  Trying to get you interested.  Don't be too quick to jump; he may have something that you don't want.  

Just be yourself.  Everybody doesn't have to have s*x all of the time.  There is nothing to make all this fuss about.

You don't have to be labeled something.  Just be "Not Interested" or "Interested."  Are people walking around with signs around their neck?

Answer 5

Well its hard to judge so soon, but I think it is most likely due to the fact you've only just ended a relationship and you just need a break!

Being asexual is when you don't feel attraction whatsoever to anyone sexually or physically.

Hope this helps :)