Is this rape? Or is this not rape any oppions great?

Question

a guy goes on A date there suppose to go to the movies well they end up at a other friends house were to more guys are at well to guys and the girl go skinny diping this after hey played quarters and kicked her but well then they rain a train and took pictures these guys are 3 linebackers variety starting she said she went numb and couldn't talk One of the guys asked her did she want to stop but she says said she couldn't speak because she went numb and in shock this happens last summer and me and the girl did t like each other and I was friends with the guys well arou d march me and the girl started dateing again thisis are only problem in are relationship I belive it is rape sometimes then I don't because she don't remember how it starts I know girl she wouldn't have s*x with me for awhile y we were dating but I just hAve problems beliveing it she loves me I love her but this we always fight about I need help is it rape or or is it not and if it is rape am I a butt she cry everytime we talk about It any oppions will be nice thank you

Answer 1

Although it's hard to read your horrible grammar, sounds like rape. Playing quarters means she was drunk.

Answer 2

I am wondering if they used the "date rape" drug.  This sure sounds like rape to me.  Did she report it to the police.  Both of you are in need of counseling to get to the bottom of this matter.

Answer 3

It probably was. Rape is a very unpleasant and traumatizing experience, you should help by trying to be supportive and loving. I hope she gets some counseling cause this can work quite nastily on a woman's Psyche. Offer her your comfort if you really care about her.

Good luck.  

Answer 4

Hi mate. Dont make her relive that evening over and over. You are not helping one bit. You are only asking just to satisfy your own emotional needs. If she wanted to discuss it with you she would do it. How dare you! Give her some support... don't torment her. It is difficult enough to deal with without her having to try to resolve your emotions of it.  So back off before she leaves you. Dont raise the subject ever again. She will talk to you about it if she wants to.

Yes it was probably date rape. Here in Australia spiking anybody's drink warrants imprisonment... that's where rapists find out what it means to have something taken from you.

Answer 5

If she was drunk and/or under the age of legal consent, this qualifies as rape. Sorry.

Answer 6

yep

Answer 7

Sounds like rape to me.

Answer 8

Well b4 u start asking questions u need to learn how to spell & end sentences so they dont run into each other.

Yes it is rape.

Answer 9

Well, the story is completely filled with gibberish, so I will just lay out what rape is:

Girl doesn't want the p***s, gets the p***s anyways.

Girl unconscious/can't talk/move, gets the p***s.  

Answer 10

too many spelling errors. i don't understand what is going on.  

Answer 11

Yes it was rape.  Doesn't matter if she remembers how it started or not, that makes it worse.  They took advantage of her plain and simple.  Counseling would help her a lot.