Is this rape? What should I do?

Question

was drunk, a virgin, and the guy is saying we had s*x... I am 19, wanted to stay a virgin until marriage. I don't remember having s*x, just getting to third base. He is a shady guy, but it's killing me to not know for sure. I was not sore or anything the day after. My parents will be so ashamed, but if I go to him with the threat of rape and he still says I consented and we did it, I feel I have to tell them and press charges. This is killing me. Please give me your opinion.

Answer 1

I would suggest going to the doctor first and finding out if you are or are not a "virgin" first.  This unfortunately could be a cruel prank......afterwards if you are not talk to your parents explain the situation and call the police.