Is this really true??!!10 POINTS BEST ANSWER!?

Question

So me and my bestfriend (girl) are sitting in our dorm room discussing random stuff and ALL OF A SUDDEN:

HER: "Beebo, Do you know how to tell if you and your BF love eachother?"

ME: "Not that I'm not sure of it...but enlighten me oh great and wise one"

HER: "If you can stay in the bathroom with him while he is dropping a deuce...and vice versa"

ME: "FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS THAT ARE HOLY WOMAN! Where do you get your resources??!!"

Sooooo....is what she said true? I mean I've been with my boo for 2 and a half years but I don't see myself ever in that situation (it would be fair to say he feels the same way...I think....I hope), that doesn't mean that I don't love him right? Has anyone ever done that with their bf/spouse...where one of them was in the bathroom with the other? And I don't mean pissing or taking a shower. I mean actually SITTING THERE while they take a huge dump!

YOU'LL GET YOUR 10 POINTS WHEN YOU ANSWER ALL MY QUESTIONS YA HEAR??!

Thanks Guys and Girlies!!

Answer 1

Let's be real... Love and Gross do not have to be in the same sentence... that's just nasty... loving someone has nothing to do with that. And besides, if that meant that you loved someone then all the sick people in the world who do things like that, were they acting merely out of love. Love is defined not by watching your other take a dump, but by loving them even though they've taken a dump in your bathroom... it's being selfless and loving them despite everything. It's respect, admiration, support, it's wanting them to go to heaven, it's all those things, but it is NOT watching them take a dump.  

Answer 2

thats really gross but if you think  that will make your realtionship better than i guess

Answer 3

ok so I have been married for 8 years and yes I have been in the bathroom with my hubby has been taking a dump, but not for very long. d**n he stinks. It really has nothing to do with love it's more like being comfortable with each other and yourself. If you don't want to smell your bf's stink then don't enter the bathroom, but one thing I will promise you. When you are old and married, you will at least once enter the bathroom while your spouse is doing his thing.  

Answer 4

No that isn't true...gross!  I was raised not to burp and f**t in front of men so even though I love my husband unconditionally I would never be in the bathroom as he "dropped a deuce" or while I did.

Answer 5

I think thats just disgusting, i don't care if i was dating someone for 10 years i would still not stay in the bathroom while they were taking a sh*t ! Thats gross

Answer 6

if you can sit in the bathroom while his taking a dump believe me you MUST love him  

Answer 7

Nah.. for one, I get stage fright when she is in there putting on the makeup... I just can't release. f**t yes.. but drop a groan.. no way. It's all clogged up until I get a little privacy.

Now that's gotta be love.. right?

Answer 8

lol. Good thing I am not shy and kinda bored.

I know he loves me for many reasons. Usually the small things that count.

She sounds real enlightened and raw. I do it all the time only cause we are nudists and uninhibited about natural functions.

She gets her resources from the school of Hard knocks

It might be true for her but it varies I hope from couple to couple.

You must have a good relationship and if you feel you love him then I am going to believe you.

I answered tat above but yes we are very free with that around the house. Respectful of others at all times. After ten years of marriage and two kids I have smelled enough p**p to not even care.

I have answered all and more than your questions and have used up some time. Thanks for that.

Good Night.

lol

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Answer 9

1.  No

2.  Right

3.  Yes

4.  Yeah I hear

Answer 10

Smirks.

No, she's not right.

You can see someone take a c**p, but it doesn't mean you love them. That's just kind of ridiculous. People in love, married couples who'll live happily ever after, they don't have to see each other poo to love each other. I'm sure plenty never did, and never will.

Answer 11

She is completely wrong and gross.

Answer 12

I and my husband have been married for over 20 years and i love him dearly, but we have never *ahem been in that situation yet.

*rolls eyes

Answer 13

wow they must be SUPER comfortable!

Answer 14

I've been married for 10 years and I or my wife have not sat in the bathroom while either of us are doing our business.

Shower, yes, every day.

Your friend is a little strange.

Answer 15

lolololololllll

Answer 16

What she said to you isn't true.

Unlikely that your boo would want you to watch... that's nasty.

Your love doesn't have anything to do with someone taking a ****.

In marriage, you will find yourself in the bathroom when he's sitting. Like, you quickly come in to get he brush. But if he's polite, he'll wait for you to leave.

Now, I'm sure there are some people who don't have a problem with this situation. However, I do believe the vast majority of us would rath leave that as something you do in private!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 17

..............WTF...............

Answer 18

...that's really disgusting...i've never heard of that in my life but i think that's probably the worst thing to tell someone in order to determine whether a person loves another. And i think if you're seriously thinking about whether it's true or not just think use common sense, would anyone want to be in the restroom while the other person is doing their business? i really doubt it, but hey if people think that that is the way to tell whether one person loves another then i am just amazed...

Answer 19

I've been with my man 3 years and have his child....I still would say h**l NO p**p BY YOURSELF COCHINO!!!! I have heard that if you can pee with him in there and vice versa then it means you love them...I think I saw that on Girlfriends but i can't remember lol. I've also heard a married couple talking on the phone and I was with the wife being nosy and she told him to let her hold him while he pees [figuratively speaking] so idk...but never the other one...that is super icky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BLEH!

Answer 20

ive actually done this with my partner and i think it helps a lot...

first, it throws all your inhibitions for each other

secondly. there is no concealment of any sort

thirst, you build trust

fourth, it widened your understanding for each others inadequacies

lastly, it gives you freedom to make your lives easier and more comfortable

we actually do this once in a quarter and twas fun  

Answer 21

That is way off base. I would never ever sit there or be there while

he is doing number 2. (Dump)  Yes, like you said, where in the world did she get her resources to even think of something like that.

Gross, and invasion of privacy. I mean, come on, you might love the guy to death, however that is a total no no.

Actually if any woman went to that length, I would say she is a little

off balance, and totally not acting as a lady.

The only reason a girlfriend, wife would be there, is if he was ill or

needed help and they did not have a nurses aid to help.

Otherwise...Off limits! If she watches him dump, I bet he will dump her!

Tell her to rethink what she said to you. Unbelievable.

Answer 22

well, my dad did that 2 my mom once, and u dont have 2 b in dat situation 2 love someone, because 2 love someone is to care 4, and 2 die 4

Answer 23

WTF??? that is totally grouse...but again there might be perverts who might have varying fancies...the general tendency is a NO...but then again if you fancy that thought and you find a partner who fancies the same thing then you might have fun together.

since you have not got that thought doesn't in any way mean that you don't love him.Your friend BEEBO...sounds really pervert enough.It is better if you stop listening to her advices regarding relationships.

P.S:you look pretty in ur pic!

Answer 24

lmao i heard that! and i've done it too lolz! we'll he was in the one in the toilet!