Is this really wrong of me?

Question

Theres this guy that i talk to, hes my cousins uncle, and we started chatting because we love to talk about music, and as we've been talking ive liked him...alot and well, he's 21

and of course i know that this is wrong, since im 13

But i dont know, i feel weird around him now, all lovey dovey, should i tell him (not that i espect anything back of course) but just to get it off my chest.

He will understand, he is really understanding and sweet

Answer 1

no don't. that would just make it awkward for him too.

Answer 2

well.. if you no expect nothing why tell something to him...  keep that for you self .. until you are more mature or adult ... to take a better decision you also said that you know is wrong thinking like that.. So, also he can take advantage of you about this situation.. maybe no.. but "we" don't know that kid like you know him.. So my suggestion is...  be careful .. and think what you uncle go to said if he know how you think about his cousin...

good luck

Answer 3

no you should not you are stupid this is upsetting for him and therefore he would pro ably not talk to you again why are you trying to upset him? hes doing right by you and you are taking it and making or trying to make it ugly move on girl and get a life with a guy closer ot your age.

Answer 4

So this is why you broke up with me.. isn't it?

You dumped me... for 21 yr old... who won't return your love...

At least when we were dating (for two DAYS) there was nothing iilegal

Answer 5

well i would definiatly tell a guy if i liked him.

but since he's your cousins uncle and is 21, it may be a little weird for the both of you.

make sure you actually like him, not just crushin on him before you do anythin you'll regret.

Answer 6

i dont think you should tell him now.

maybe once you start school again very soon you will meet a nice boy your age and your crush on this 21 year old will fade...

and then

when you are older, like 17 or 18, you will remember this 21 year old (who actually will be 25 when you are 17) and then you will start talking to him again and maybe your crush will come back but by that time you will be older and wiser and then you will be at just a older age for him.

just find some boy at school to get lovey dovey about and this confusing crush you have now will subside.

Answer 7

go for it....its better than feeling weird around him anyway

Answer 8

That is wrong! You are related! and even if you werent you are way too young for him!!! sorry!

Answer 9

i think maybe telling him is not such a smart choice as this might change the relationship between both of you.u just need to stop acting so lovey dovey around him. maybe if u tell him he might not come around u anymore

Answer 10

well, its illegal,

but i think you should tell him.