Is this right or wrong for me to do?

Question

a month ago i met a girl and we became really close. last week we got together and we sort of played around a bit and she masturbated me. since then ive been really guilty. ive never masturbated before and i want to know if this is right or wrong thing to do. im 14 btw.

Answer 1

i think you guys should slow down. for one you only met a month ago and you're 14 i mean if you guys really like each other whats the rush?and if you feel guilty you probably shouldn't do it.

Answer 2

maybe you just weren't ready.  dont be weird around the girl though, you will feel better soon.  good luck!

Answer 3

If you liked it and her it is ok!

Answer 4

it is not wrong at all do not feel guilty you did nothing wrong as long as both of you wanted to do it

Answer 5

Masturbaton is perfectly healthy and fine to do. It does not damage your health, people say "it might make you go blind" just cause they wont you to stop doing it.

Enjoy :P

Answer 6

well i dont think it should be wrong if it felt good as long as u use a condom

Answer 7

you are too young to be having any sexual activity woth a girl and its not masturbation if she did it for you its only masturbation if you are doing it to yourself.

Answer 8

You are feeling guilty because it was not the right thing to do for you.  It is okay to tell her how you feel.  Tell her you feel guilty and you really are feeling like you should not do that again for now.

Try to stay away from times that might make you tempted to do things you are not ready for.

You are too young.  I was not even allowed to date until I was 16 and even then I was not ready.  I would freak out if my nieces did that.  It is not the right thing to do.  

Just meet them only as just friends.  Get to know them slowly, and not in a physical matter.

Answer 9

Wow, you are young.

But i am sure you know that.

But it is normal for guys to m********e.

My best advice for you is stay young as long as you can. Don't get wrapped up in s*x. It isn't healthy for kids your age.

Answer 10

This is all part of growing up. It's fine. Let go of the guilt.

Answer 11

Did it feel good? Yes it is the right thing to do, just dont stick it in her. And don't listin to these people there just mad cuz they never got any when they where young.

Answer 12

WOAH!! 14? holy c**p. to me that seems waaaay to young. i would feel bad to but if you really love her then just let it go and tell her that it was going to fast and that you want to just forget that. And if you just like her because she would give you "it" then just tell her to back off and you don't really want to be with her anymore, or just say you just want to be friends.  

Answer 13

That feeling of guilt you're having? Yeah. that means it was wrong. If you were totally okay about it and not worrying about people finding out and such it would mean it was fine.

see how that works?

Answer 14

Welcome to the Wonderful World of s*x~!~!~!

You might want to reciprocate the favor, and please do not ever, EVER feel guilty.  Guilt is what has ruined the world, so, if you tried it and you like it, then enjoy yourself and feel GOOD about it!~~!

Answer 15

i was 14 when i pretty much gave myself to my boyfriend. but we have been going out for a year.

did you take atvantige of her?

if not no.

have you called her back

have you talked to her lately?

if you haven't then you kinda took advantage of her....

and its not masturbated me. its called a hand job.

Answer 16

dude you are gunna live life good

dont worry, its all good, in high school that will happen alot if you hang around with that girl

Answer 17

Umm its not masturbation if she does it, but i guess you can call it that. Anywayss, your way to young....

Answer 18

If you are both comfortable with it and you are both around the same age - it's not bad or dirty. Just go slow - you are 14 and your emotions are kind of fragile right now. If it really makes you uncomfortable, it is your body - and you should say no!

Many people think that only girls get pushed into s*x, or sexual stuff, but it's not true. Guys can feel the same kind of pressure. Just stay true to you and only do what you feel comfortable with - and have the same respect for your girl.

Being a young teen is a confusing time - and sometimes adding sexual pressure into the mix can make it more confusing. I hope you both stay safe - physically and emotionally.

:-D

Answer 19

yer, that's weird...

Answer 20

Dude your ballin, good work. You will love it in a couple years.

Answer 21

YOU'RE  ONLY 14? OF COURSE IT'S WRONG! YOU'RE TOO YOUNG!

Answer 22

It's normal. Everyone does it and everyone will tell you this. If you feel guilty because of your religious views then pray for forgiveness. Other than that, stop feeling guilty...it's totally normal and you'll have plenty more experiences like this. Although, if you continue being sexually active be safe.  

Answer 23

no it's good, but she did it for you, you kind of owe her now.

Answer 24

If you feel guilty, then God is probably trying to tell you something. He wants you to ask for forgiveness. Adultery is one of the worst sins there is, it separates you from God. All I can say is repent and start new.