Is this selfish?

Question

the one person who i trust with everything, who is like a mom figure to me... is moving away.

i think i'm bulimic, but never been diagnosed, never told anyone. it's driving me crazy and the only person i could ever imagine telling would be her. i don't know if i should tell her before she moves? she's leaving next month. if it's going to make things harder for her, i don't want to tell her.

what should i do?

:(

Answer 1

You "think" you're bulimic?

Um, how do you think that?

And no don't tell her, don't waste her time.

Answer 2

Hey, It might make things a little harder, but you have to tell her how you feel. It's the only way...

....maybe if the distance isn't far, the two of you can come up with a few ideas to get together as often as the both of you can.

Answer 3

Trust me! You should tell her! If she cares about you like a Mom would then she would definitely want to know what's going on and try to help you in whatever way she can. Let it out and tell her! If you keep it bottled up inside it may get worse and you don't want that! So go for it and tell her. Believe me she would never wish that you didn't tell her.

Go for it! I hope it works out (:

Answer 4

Whether you tell her or not, you should tell SOMEBODY. You need to talk to a doctor. It's a serious condition that you need to get treated for. It will change your life...

Answer 5

tell her everything, including how your woried about "trying to get her to stay". Be honest.