Is this some crazy stuff?

Question

My wife and I were arguing and when were done she went to another room and call some guy that she talked to in another state. I hear her on the phone and went in the room and she hung up fast. I asked who was it she said a GF. later I pressed redial and a guy answered and I asked her why did she call him she said I was feeling bad and wanted to cheer up. I said you could have called anybody else but a guy to do that. So I think that if there was not anything going on she wouldve call him? what do you think?

Answer 1

that was so NOT cool what your wife did. If your wife is "running" to another man to get some cheering up because the two of you had a fight, that's a BIG problem. Her communication with this man could become a serious problem in your relationship later. (hopefully it's not, but definitely don't want it to be)

it's the classic case: woman is mad or upset with her husband, talks to another man who makes her feel better, let her cry on his shoulder and then, starts to develop an emotional based relationship. Her communication with this man in another state needs to end immediately. the fact that she lied about who she was talking to is enough to let you know that something isn't right. she knew it was wrong and in my opinion, it was very disrespectful.

she needs to find another friend to talk to when she's down and it needs to actually be a GF!  Hope things work out, but you better keep your eyes and ears open for the this dude in another state. don't take his location for granted!

Good luck!

Answer 2

She's cheating or wants to cheat, maybe she is lacking something w/ in the relationship and trying to find someone to fill that void, when a person cheats,they normally their mind to be careless about the one their hurting so I believe she is playing a game right now and not caring about the marraige. she is being selfish and immature. I would sepearate from her if i were you NOT divorce but leave her be for a while allow her some space, she will miss the water when it's dry. Her heart is definatly w/ you but right now she wants the cake. Please believe that there is nothing wrong w/ you in general, women require a lot of attention but it doesnt mean she needs to look elsewhere for it, she needs to learn to communicate w/ her own husband and i think that having a "friendship" w/ another male is not okay for her, Never!! in my book. as being a man yourself interacting w/ a pretty lady will not give you the "friendship" thought in your mind, neither will another man, so just a heads up her male "friend" may just be a little more than what she is telling you... good luck

Answer 3

Not on, that really crosses the boundaries and undermines your marriage.  It doesn't matter how far away he lives the point is that's where her heart led her. She needs to see that it is wrong, how would she feel if the shoe was on the other foot.

Answer 4

um....... she must be cheating on you or starting to cheat on you. you should watch what she's doing and talk to her about what she's doing idk if i was in her place and you were cheating i would get  something hard and make wish you never did what you did  but your man you shouldn't hit or hurt her hum go to the gym start looking good make her feel bad.

Answer 5

I  used to have a best friend Micheal  I would call him any where any time if I had a problem He did the same with me  We were friends and that was all My daughter has had a friend she will  call Her husband hated it  caused many problems

Answer 6

you should handel her politely

she may not comfortable with you

therefore she called someone

be wise and polite

Answer 7

Something must be going on, because she hung up as if she was hiding something from you. And she lied about it.  

Answer 8

well it depends on you, are you one of those guys that go mental when his wife talks to another guy? because I have male friends that I do not sleep with but my exhusband did not know about because I know if he did he would of gone spastic! so I had to keep them a secret! other wise if you are not like that and you are happy for your wife to just be friends with other guys and you dont get jelous well I dont know maybe she is seeing him? I segest you ask her to  see her reaction?