Is this suppost to happen when its your first time? ?

Question

ive never worn tampons and im 14.

but about a week ago, i got fingered for the first time. and it hurt REALLY bad (i no it sounds kinda nasty but w.e) like it seriously killed, but i usually getting fingered is suppost to feel good? why didnt it?

Answer 1

first of all you are too young.. second of all yes it will hurt!!! please best answer me!

Answer 2

It will hurt your first few times until you get used to it. You might try doing it yourself more gently until you get used to it or have your partner to do it more gently. Lubrication will help but really you are young and not really stretched out enough for it not to hurt. Your partner needs to understand to be more gentle until you get more used to it and lube up good.

Answer 3

As you're young I assume you were nervous about this.

Unless the v****a is lubricated you will feel a lot of pain during any kind of insertion. What most people think is the pain of the hymen breaking is actually just because they're too try.

Use a personal lubricant (spit will work in a pinch) and relax. Enjoy yourself, but stay safe!

In the mean time, you should start learning your own body. Sounds bad I know, but if you know how to make yourself feel good, you can let the other person know what they need to do.