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Is this the sort of a normal doubt to have in a relationship?

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Hi, I'm 21 years old and I've been together with my boyfriend for 5 months, now approaching 6. I've never met anyone so funny and smart, someone I am so compatible with on a mental level and physical. s*x life is wonderful, conversations are great but occasionally I get doubts: I really can't stand the fact that he cusses and burps and are often rude to strangers. I don't mind cussing when he is frustrated or very angry, but he does it in a normal conversation when referring to something. He is rude to strangers that look at him, he is a bit defensive and always assumes they have some nasty thing on their mind to say to him and he often sais something mean to them.

Anyway, I really think I love him, at least I feel it. I want an honest answer about this, are these doubts something I have to consider seriously? Or can these things be "fixed" as time goes on? Also, I realize it's only been 5 months so maybe it's natural to have doubts but I really want your opinion. I hope you stay open minded to my question and not lean on my age or the length of time of our relationship.

If possible, I'd like the answers to come from people with experience with relationships who have gone through similar things.

Thank you :-)!

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  1. Hun its not good, get out whist you can. I am 'possibly' in the breakup of my partner of 7 years, and we had similar issues at the start. As hurtful as it is, trust me, its even more painful with 7 years and kids

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