Is this too much s*x for 16 year olds?

Question

I have three friends and all of them had have s*x. Beth's had s*x with 8 guys and she's only 16 and started when she was 14. Brittney is 16 almost 17 and has had 5 and started when she was only 15 same with Rachel she's had 5 started at 15 and she's only 16. I'm still a virgin unfortunately...

Answer 1

Don't be ignorant...be happy you're a virgin...don't risk you life.  Why give that special thing away to someone you won't care about in a few years...would you want your kids to have s*x at such a young age?  Where is the morality in this world?  Its almost gone...and people like you can try to keep it here just a little longer.  Everyone has a weakness to s*x, but everyone has the power to say no...

Answer 2

yes, that is definitely too much s*x! they are way too young to have s*x with that many people. and i you are their age, then you should be in no rush to have s*x. be proud of yourself that you are still a virgin!

Answer 3

Unfortunately?!?! Be thankful you're not at your age! You friends should not be having s*x with that many guys at such a young age. What they're doing is stupid and they will regret it when they end up drop outs, pregnant or with an STD. s*x is beautiful thing when it is with someone you care about and when you mature enough. Your friends are not and not because they are 16, but because they are immature. Get some knew friends.  

Answer 4

Oh wow. That's too much. I'm not one to judge, but don't be like your friends. You will end up with lots of regrets. If you are going to have s*x, make sure the guy is worth it. Do not go around s******g everyone... wait until you are mentally prepared for s*x. I cant imagine how your friends must feel about themselves....  They are too young to be having s*x like that.

Answer 5

well, its a little too much, but thats their problem

eventually, theyll get caught, get an STD, get pregnant, or make some type of mistake

if u want, u could always try to talk to them, but they might not listen to the 'virgin' if u know wut i mean

Answer 6

If they were in loving relationships with these sexual partners then it's still a lot but not so bad as having one night stands say. Though 5 sexual partners in a year... nearly one every two months. Pretty S****y imo. It makes me cringe. All I can think about is these girls looking back on themselves in 3 years time, and chlamydia.. oh chlamydia.

Just don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't feel like doing. It's really not worth it. s*x is so much better when it's sober, and with a person you care about, using protection!

Answer 7

OMG that's way too much! What hoes....my first kiss/time wasn't until I was 18.

It's a good thing that you're still a virgin. Don't be like one of us who gives it to the guy who "loves" us and then forgets about us.

Answer 8

its up to your opinion but im going to say yes. i think 8, even 5, is a bit too much. i started at 16, im 19 and im at 2.  

Answer 9

I'm 17 and i'm waiting until after marriage... guys need to know how to wait and be patient and all that "mature" stuff... usually guys that pressure you are immature... be proud you are a virgin, not ashamed

Answer 10

These girl's will have a reputation of being a s**t or easy as they get even older. For their age and having that many partners Yes it's WAY to much for them.

Don't be ashamed that your still a virgin. Nothing wrong with it at all. To me your the smartest one in your little group of friends.  

Answer 11

why so many guys?

you are supposed to wait for "the right guy" but 15 guys for a 16 year old?

too many s*x is not even right for most people at that age

Answer 12

WHAT?

why do you say unfortunately?

you should be proud of yourself - not letting guys pursue you.

or giving into something that you really shouldn't be proud of  or doing.

All you're friends started having s*x underage of consent.

which is 16 in most states.

Answer 13

you say unfortunately like losing your virginity is a medal of honor.

With that viewpoint then you are too young for s*x. And why do you have to do things just because your friends do it. Least you can say you have some self respect before you toss it away.

Your view of virginity is like it is cheap. A number of girls want to save themselves for marriage to give their precious asset to their husband. You want to throw it to a boy who is just doing it for his own interests not yours.

No wonder this world is so friggin' messed up big time.

Answer 14

You call out your friends and talk about their s*x lives?  

I would say something truthful and it would be something that you need to hear, but I do not want to get a deduction in points.

Answer 15

At that age 1 time is way to many times. Don't follow their footsteps, you'll have a bad image by the time your 17! Focus on getting to know people, people have minds and personalities, not just crotches. Take pleasure in being a virgin. At least your way you don't have to worry about sexually transmitted diseases or getting pregnant. Besides most boys think that after they've had s*x with you , they want nothing more to do with  you, your just a notch on their belt.

Answer 16

They say that teenagers that are active in s*x have a 50% chance of becoming pregnant.  The STD chances are just as high.  

Worry about school, and becoming successful.  s*x never made anybody successful, well unless your a call girl.  

Answer 17

Yes, and I doubt they are all using condoms all the time. There is nothing unfortunate about being a virgin, sweetheart. You still have your whole life ahead of you, and you don't have to worry if you are pregnant or if you have a deadly sexually transmitted disease, or worry that all your classmates think you are a dirty little s**t. These friends of yours have to deal with all of this. And they did this to themselves. I was 17 when I had s*x for the 1st time and I married that guy. I didn't sleep around as a teenager. And guess what, my husband cheated on me with 3 other girls after we were married and gave me an std. Luckily it wasn't deadly and totally removable. But before it was removed, it nearly gave me cervical cancer. Yes, s*x can give you something called the Human papilloma virus by way of genital warts(which can be removed). I almost got cancer at age 18. Do you realize the moment you have unprotected s*x, that's when you have to start worrying about these things? Be proud that you are a virgin. Your friends are very irresponsible with their lives by having multiple s*x partners especially at a young age. Please check out this link and read up on it before you decide to give away your virginity. And show this link to your friends, they need educated and they need to see their doctor for some serious testing. They may already be infected with an STD and not know it.  It's disgusting that they have slept with so many guys in such a short time at such a young age. I'd kill my daughter if I found out she had done this too. Good luck, help your friends, you may save their lives if you help them get to the doctor and get tested. CONDOMS people!!!

Answer 18

well dont try to be like them having so many different partners puts them more at risk for STDs and how much s*x they have is a personal choice i wouldnt say its too much but i dont think its a good choice  

Answer 19

Oh my god...honey please dont do it at any cost...believe me you would end up feeling like s hit much later in life...so please dont fall for it...IM NOT RELIGIOUS...its not religion that prompts me to speak like this...being 22 now, having crossed my vulnerable age, one of the lessons ive learned frm my life is that virginity is DEFINITELY a power

Answer 20

yes it is, it is risky to have so many different partners in such a short time, don't let then pressure you

Answer 21

Don't let your friends pressure you.

Only have s*x when you are ready and you REALLY love and trust the person who you are with.

I am 19, still a virgin and proud. I don't plan on losing my virginity until I find the right girl.

Answer 22

Yes, that is too much s*x. You need to wait till you are grown and have met a special someone. All of you are too young to deal with the consequences of having s*x. What if you get pregnant or contract a STD. I am not going to even dwell on the spiritual connotations of sleeping around.

Answer 23

Yes, it is definitely way too much s*x for girls their age. It's only normal to want to experiment and see what it's like but, doing so has it dangers as well. That many guys, however, is way too many for even a grown adult who wants to live a long and happy life. Save the s*x for that special someone. I think you're on the right track. Don't be so concerned about what everyone else is doing.

Answer 24

WUT DO U MEAN UNFORTUNATLY!! THATS ACTUALLY A HUGE ACCOMPLISHMENT NOWADAY GIRLS ARE LOSING IT AT 12 UNFORTUNATLY!

Answer 25

most definately!!! OMG, you should be proud of yourself for not beinga s**t like they are. if they get pregnent, be glad it wasnt you. dont ever be ashamed to be a virgin.

:)

Answer 26

Yes! That is a lot of guys! ALl of them could of got her pregnant or carried STD's or STI's. At our age (I am 16) you should be looking to be with your first time guy and maybe a second partner!

Just make sure they are happy with it and that they are being careful. ANd dont say unfortuantely you are a virgin! There is NOTHING at all wrong with it!

xx

Answer 27

It's "I'm still a virgin fortunately" It's not unfortunate. Your friends could possibly carry STDs, so it's fortunate that you don't. And it is too much s*x for their age. No offense to your friends, but you don't want to be like them unless you want to be thought of as a s**t.  

Answer 28

W. W,  God bless you hon. Please remain a virgin until marriage ! As far as your friends definetly too much !You are very wise because this day and age s*x can kill or hurt you for life, not to mention eternity ! Oh by the way I am a 48 year old Christian man.

Answer 29

your still a virgin unfortounatly!!!!!!????????

be thankful gosh you have S****y w***e friends.

get some new friends.

Answer 30

All I can say is your friends get around..

Thats not too much s*x thats too many &%$#@ guys.

I am 17 and have only been with 3 guys and thats all I will be with since im staying with my boyfriend of 4 yrs. Theres really no need for a girl to have alot of people ...I never relly wanted a shopping list of names.

Answer 31

it is too much s*x but i'm not here to judge, i'm 17 and i had s*x with 10guys, and i started when i was 14, but they should have a reason for doing it. and please no judgment b/c i'm not a hoe, my consequence single mother[9months baby], and my only priority is to go to college. i  learned from my mistakes