Is this traumatizing to women?

Question

Hello this is going to sound sad and very embaressing and pathetic on my part but I am just wondering

When I was younger probably from age 12 to maybe 22 I use to kind of expose myself to women, not fully expose myself but I guess spandex were popular at the time and I use to like showing off my hard d**k to women(with spandex as the covering)

I know this sounds like a pathetic thing and I know it is sad, but I look back now and I am kind of ashamed of it

Is this something that could be traumatizing? I imagine women were turned off, or I dont know

Anyway this is something I did alot from about 8th grade to maybe about my early 20s, I am now in my late 20s and just wondering, I never actually exposed myself fully but I guess I just did it as spandex as the covering

again this is something I am not proud of, something I just did as my way of talking to women or whatever

I kind of use to jog around in spandex and would get off by women looking at my package, or in school I would wear spandex under my shorts and kind of role up my shorts when I knew I was sitting around a girl so they could look at my you know what , also when I wore sweatpants I kind of exposed myself

Anyway now that I am older and looking back on how crappy my life is I look back at this thing and just wondering if I did any type of long term damage, I never did anything like expose it naked or molest them or touch them, just kind of expose it through spandex or sweatpants

This is really pathetic the more I think about it

and yea fire away, I am open to comments, I know I am an a***e, the harsher the comment the more I probably deserve it

or I dont know maybe women dont think it is a big deal, it is kind of pathetic when I look back now, but I really dont know how women take it, I imagine theyd think I was a loser or had problems

Answer 1

Any woman who would be "traumatized" by that or even by seeing a naked man has issues.  She might not exactly like it, she may find it amusing, she might think it's gross, but "traumatized"?  That's funny.  

Answer 2

What a d**k!  Go get some help!

Answer 3

It just sound's pathetic. But on the bright side I am sure you gave a good many women a reason to laugh...

Answer 4

You didn't hurt anyone did you? You feel bad about what you did back then? So forget the past, you don't sound like a bad person at all. Heaps of people are voyeurs;  I certainly do not think you should be ashamed of yourself.

Seriously there are a lot of people who have done worse things than you. You're not a bad guy, let it go.  

Answer 5

No.. funny and pathetic is more like it. Not traumatizing at all. Even funnier if the package is small.

Answer 6

haha no, on the bus in my old town and old guy used to be naked under this long coat every saturday on the way to the city. All the young people used to proper rip it out of him and call him a sadcase. It didnt traumitise me we thought it was hilarious to laugh at him! everyone knows people who do this have no lives and will never get a shag so people laugh at them

Answer 7

I don't know whether this counts as exposure or not.  I mean, I suppose a lot of men wear spandex etc when they go jogging, and if you are the sort of woman who likes to look at that kind of man, I don't know what goes through your head.  A man jogging in spandex is not my personal thing, and I am not much given to staring at men's genitalia, but I don't see how it can be called exposure really.  I mean, I've always associated that with naked exposure, I don't think spandex counts, does it?

Answer 8

No, don't worry, you didn't traumatize anyone. I assume you did it semi discreetly, so no one had to look. Trust me, seeing a spandex bump is the least of most people's worries. You can see this sort of stuff at the beach or pool.