Is this uncalled for? PLEZ read?

Question

OK. i have been going to this place on holidays and sometimes on weekends since i was very little. We have friends up there and there's a lake and they have a boat and we water ski and tube and stuff. Anyways, the people whos house we visitare sorta mean to me, ever since i was a little kid. Examples include, one day a few years ago, i wanted to go tubeing. So i was little and i kept asking the woman there if we could go and she kept saying "sure sure in a little bit." Well, my family needed to get back home, so as Soon as my mom said we were leaving, the woman took all the other kids out tubeing. Just recently, we get to the beach-like spot, and the woman who i was talking about b4's hubby says hi but says it really soft. I hardley herd him. When i realized he said hi to me, i said "Oh, hey!" but i wasnt sure he heard me. Later, his wife, the woman who is mean to me 4 ever, comes up and says this. in the following order,

"You know, the least you could do is say hi too(name changed to protect privacy and potentially my butt), Bill."

"I did."

"No you didn't(BTW she wasnt even there). he told me you didnt.'

" he must not have heard me."

" Be sure to say hi next time."(she says really nastyly.)

Another friend who was there turned to my mom and whisper something along the lines of "that was really uncalled for." And i slinked away to the car to read my book on how to deal with the negative people in your life. Tao.

Anyway. she has always been really mean to me and there are plenty more stories like these were this came from. It seems like nothing i ever do is good enough, or like everything i do is wrong. So back to my original question, "is this uncalled for!"

Answer 1

It sounds like it's uncalled for.  It also sounds like you're one of those people who tries to please everyone and whose feelings are hurt if someone thinks negatively towards them.  Just be yourself and try to ignore the woman's bad attitude.  If it still bothers you, just ask her if you did something years ago to make her so bitchy towards you to this day.  It's likely that you hadn't.  

She just may be jealous that you're smarter or more athletic than her kid or whatever makes parents jealous of other kids, you know what I'm saying).  Or she may have issues with your parents.  Just don't let her ruin your good time.

Answer 2

These people are rude and stupid. WHY do you keep trying to get in their good graces? It's obvious they don't like you so ignore them!! They are not worth your good nature. You are going to meet people like them in your life so learn now how to NOT deal with them. I make a little box in my head and I throw people like that in there and close the lid--tight! They don't exist anymore.  

Answer 3

That was way uncalled for especially from an adult! You handled it well.  Sounds like she gets some sort of pleasure being nasty to you.  It's not fair you're her target but for a moment in her miserable little life, you made her feel good. That's very unselfish of you.