Is this unusual? I can't fall in love.?

Question

I don't fall in love. I don't even get crushes on people. I think that some people are good-looking or s**y, I think that some people are nice and funny and kind etc. But I don't fall for them.

I'm always very calm and detached about it, I never lose my head over anyone.

Am I just the least romantic person on Earth, or is there something wrong with me?

Answer 1

u need sum1 like me  

Answer 2

hate to say this... but you many be L*****n (hold on - don't throw things at me yet)

heres the story - dated this goddess of a girl and got on well, I felt all the emotions and tried to bond.  she'd enjoy being with me and even sleeping with me - no passion, no cuddles afterwards.  I had a few strange friends back then, one was a rather loud L*****n and they got talking, became friends then more then friends.  ok i backed off and my friends did all the usual jokes, but she's much happier that way.  

got chatting to her a while later, after I was less gutted.  she said that though she loved me and like being with me - it was only when she went with her she knew what she was missing.

this probably doesn't help much, and in all likeliness your not L*****n.  

Answer 3

you will you just havnt found me yet

Answer 4

I'm the same way.

I am just picky, or don't want to be hurt by others, or I'm too strong headed, stubborn and prideful to allow emotions to get me carried away.

It's smart, in my opinion, but don't allow it to hold you back if you really find someone that you think is worthwhile enough to let go and love. And it probably won't be a regular guy either.

Answer 5

No, there is nothing wrong,you just have not met the right person.I am  willing to say that you see most of friends in relationships and that you worry  because your not in one at moment,but do not worry you are perfectly normal.I have a niece(we will call her T) she said a similar thing as you,now she is getting married and if I am not mistaken I am soon to be a great uncle,have faith in your self ,because it will happen.

Answer 6

Maybe you just havent met the right person yet.

Answer 7

You are a very lucky person.  Never change.

Answer 8

Neither can I.

But there is absolutely nothing wrong with me!

Answer 9

I have been married for fifty years and my wife and I sleep in different rooms we never discuss s*x. We are friendly but ther in ends.  

Answer 10

nuthin wrong with you, your just a bit more layed back bout it then most. u will eventually find someone believe me.

have you tried just casual dating with someone u think is goodlooking/s**y, u might just find that getting to know them better will cause u to fall for them?

also just try hitting a few bars n coffee houses every  now  and   then when u got spare time, cos the more interaction you have with different people the better your chances are of finding someone for you (=

hope helps and good luck