Is this unusual to anyone especially at my age?

Question

I'm 24 and I am still a virgin.I wouldn't even let my ex fiancee touch me in private places.I'm not ready for s*x and I'm very scared.My guy wants to finger me but I am not ready for that either.I'm just not ready for s*x.Is this unusual for someone my age?

Answer 1

well maybe cause this guy is not the right one, i think is good to save your self for the right one i did... but i was 18 years old and I'm still with him it feels good knowing  that i gave my self to my man that i love so much know I'm 20 years old.. he says he  loves me even more knowing that I'm hes first... just wait.. if he loves you he would understand  you. but then again boys have needs, if he down get it from you  then  he might get  from some one else..

Answer 2

First of all, it is not unusual to be a virgin at your age.

My guess you are more anxious than scared about it.  s*x is a big decision, and is a wonderful thing to have between 2 people who really care for each other.

Maybe you are not emotionally ready, that's all.  And it doesn't help if your guy is not giving you the security you need before taking that first big step.

Relax, it is not you.

Answer 3

Everyone is different, which include in terms of being ready for intercourse.

I don't think it's that unusual.

Answer 4

no everyones different. or maybe your the next 40 year old virgin. jk lol. nothings wrong with being a virgin.