Is this weight goal a little to extreme?am i beginning to sound anorexic?

Question

so in June i was 160 lbs. and by August i had dropped my weight to 138 lbs. and guys started liking me more.but i started gaining back weight after my diet and then i lost it and now i am at 140 lbs. but i want to get to 125 lbs by

october 20th. my mom says that i am pushing my body to hard and that i need to slow down but i refuse to listen to her. i eat around 900 calories a day and i exercise every night for i have a fear of getting fat over night. i hate the way i look and will go to extremes to get to my weight goal. my new school clothes already fit to lose on me and every time i see a fat girl at my school i say to myself that she needs to lose weight, but i finally figure out that i shouldn't be saying that stuff because i was once in her position, but i can't help it. its like there is a voice in my head telling me to think that stuff.

also i am 12, 5''4

Answer 1

weighing 125lbs and being 5'4 is completely normal

even if you were like 135 it would be too.

i weigh like 135 and I'm 5'7

tell your doctor cause it might be bad for someone so young

but no you are not anorexic

if you were overweight at 160lbs thandefinitelyy not

vote for me for best answer please:)

Answer 2

I do think you're starting to go down a dangerous path in life instead of seeing you're body and thinking to yourself I look good ,You looked at your body and said i still need more work! You don't want to get too  skinny that you become unhealthy i really suggest you start working out to tone up that way you can be toned but have nice curves!  

Answer 3

YOu dropped your weight too fast and your not eating enought to keep you body burning the calories. Your working out too much for not eating enough. So when you do eat your body has been starving and i will keep what you eat to keep your body alive. What you are doing is also dangerous to your health. It can take years off your life. You should be eating aroung 1400cal a day and working out like you do. Your body needs to know you will feed it. It will take only a little longer to lost the weight but it will stay off.  

Answer 4

I'm 13 120 pounds and i am also 5" 4. I have a six pack but im a guy. So your still above average weight but once you get about 115-125 you wont want to lose anymore weight cause then you'll look good. As long as you dont start puking stuff up on purpose then your gonna be just fine.

Answer 5

If you are really at 900 calories a day, you're going to gain it back again as soon as you have a solid meal.  You've already done this once already, why again?

Answer 6

nope not at all. 125 is a perfectly healthy weight for a girl of your height and age, you could even go about 25 lbs less without being anorexic.

Answer 7

I was the same way, and still kind of am the way you are talking. I think it's okay to lose as much weight as you want as long as you feel happy. You know you have a problem when people tell you that you're "too thin" or when you completly stop eating.  

Answer 8

900 calories is NOT even close to enough.  your metabolism is like an engine, that engine needs fuel and food is that fuel.  when you eat that few calories your metabolism will slow down.  you will lose weight but it will be muscle mass NOT fat, slowing your metabolism down even further. your body will then begin to store any and all calories as FAT.  when you begin to eat a healthy diet again you will still be storing calories as fat for as long as a year afterwards and it will lok TERRIBLE!! do it the healthy way, ask your mom to get you an appointment with a nutritionist