So my husband has a CD in his bank account which he has been putting money into since before we were married. I also work and took my inheritance ($8,000) and put it towards us strating out as a family (we have no kids and we're 21) I simply asked him if I could put my name on his account and he said "no it's his money and he's been the only one contributing to it" When all this time I've been working and giving up MY inheritance just so he COULD put money into it. I just wanted to put my name on it so atleast I feel like he recognizes the hard work I've been putting in to the marriage. But he says that I haven't contributed anything to it. It's like this $3000 he has is worth more than our marriage to him. He also said he's not sure if he wants to get a divorce over it! He constantly tells me when we argue that alllll our belongings are his...when I have been working hard and going to school trying to better our marriage as well! I don't know what to do anymore :'( It's just the principle that he thinks I have contributed nothing to help him save....he even says that we'll use "his" CD when we build a house...but in the mean time it is "completely his"?! :'( Like he doesn't trust me and I have done no-thing to be deemed untrustworthy! I gave up my life back home to move with him because he's in the navy for Christ's sake! It's not even about the money to me...I could care less...it's just that I want him to realize that I have helped him and that I am a vital part of our income :'( I'm to young to be treated like money is more important than me, when I've worked my butt off for it to :'( I just want him to appreiate that, and he can keep the money for all I care:'( and I've told him all this before, but he just says that it's "his CD"
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