Is this wrong of my friend to talk to me like this?

Question

im friends with a guy ive known for a year and think he has feelings for me but has a gf. Hes always been a big flirt and tactile the best of times in general not just me. At first i thought everything was down to him just been a major flirt but lately theres been alot of stuff of indicating he does like me. Being more full on making jokes saying im hot, being quite tactile with me touching my shoulders n arms alot and complimenting me alot on ltttle things like my tan looks good, comments on my nail varnish and pinging my bra strap. Which i know is a little naughty.

Well i was talking to him _ last night we were talking bout tattoos and i i was telling him bout the tattoos i fancied having and where he said that would look s**y and how hed find it hard to picture me with clothes on after telling him what i fancied having done. He was like oh bet i made u blush and put lol on the end of everything. We also talked bout piercings and he was on bout how he didnt like down there piercings and how girls are quite open with him and show him their nipple piercings. He said i should i get my nipple pierced to shock my sister. Hes never talked in this manner before so dont know what to make of it. Hes said stuff like oh u look hot or ill try and keep my hands to myself but nothing like above.

Is he did seem to be more i dont know sexual in what he was saying like should he be saying stuff like oh im gonnna find it hard picturing u with clothes on now while he has a gf. I told him i thought he was cheeky yet i think i shouldve said more but didnt think at time but the whole im gonna find it hard picturing u with clothes on was a bit much even for a flirt i dont want to cheat im not that knda girl yet he seems mroe full on. This is the first time since ive known him to speak like this

Answer 1

Yes, it is wrong for him to speak to you that way if that sort of thing makes you uncomfortable.  Even if it doesn't, he has a girlfriend.  He is not being very respectful to his relationship if he goes on flirting in a sexual manner with other women.  Tell him, in a serious manner, that you aren't comfortable with the flirting and the touching.  Let it be known that YOU respect his relationship with his girlfriend--even if he doesn't.

Answer 2

Well they are a lot of signs he does like you but then again maybe he's just fooling arouund so i think you should try asking him delicately why he's acting different.

Hope that helps =]

Answer 3

yes

Answer 4

Honesty is the best policy. It might be difficult at first, but ask him how he feels about you. Flirting is normal but if he is attracted to you and you to him, maybe it's something you both want to pursue, as long as he's not cheating. That would be a big problem. Take it slow but ask him what's up with the cheeky comments.

Answer 5

Yes it was wrong of him and wrong of you to instigate by telling him where you wanted the tatts. You need to remind him he has a girlfriend when he starts the dirty talk. Good Luck!