Is touching a stripper & having the stripper touch you inappropriate if you are engaged?

Question

My fiancee recently went to see Chippendales and said she touched the stripper's chest and butt and they grabbed her b*****s and ***. Before she ever went to Chippendales, she would tell me that its ok for me to go to a strip club as long as I don't touch. Now that this happened to her, she said its ok if I was to grab a strippers b*****s and *** and it'd be ok if they touched me as well. She doesn't see anything inappropriate about this. Could someone please help explain this in a way that might make her understand? Or perhaps I'm the one that is misunderstanding.

Answer 1

its just physical and i wouldnt put stock in this, in the end what matter is the heart. i am married for 8 years and we have been with other people during the marriage. however, s*x and love are two seperate things.

the issue here is your fiancee is making and changing the rules as things goes along. sounds like a headache in the making.

good luck