Is true love only possible for some of us?

Question

I'm not naive enough to believe in "soulmates" but I do believe some people find some true, requited, unconditional love and I'm wondering if such people are in the minority.

Answer 1

I think true love is possible for all, its just that some may miss their opportunity, however there is more than a minority that find it in my opinion. There is hope for all.

Answer 2

Yes.  No matter how hard we try, some of us will never find the true love we're looking for.  I'd like to think there's someone for everyone, but the reality is that we're not all going to find that person.

Answer 3

Statistically, I think it'd be impossible not to. There are so many people on this earth.

I do think though, that a lot of people DON'T find it, because they try and do the things they THINK they should do. Go to bars, or dance clubs, look hot and try and attract men/women.

But honestly, I think that if people just stick to being themselves, and going out and living life, they'll stumble across the people they're most compatible with.

Some people just SAY they're in love when they're not. And some people are just sickeningly lucky.

But over the averaged 70/80 years of our lives, I'm sure it's possible to find at least one person to love unconditionally.

Answer 4

Very good question.  I believe that not not everyone will find true love.  That's just the way it works.  You can still find a very good wife/husband though that you will love for your whole life.  I don't think that the people who find true love are a minority though.  But it isn't 100% of us either.  It's probably around 50-60% of us.  You just have to let God take care of it.

Hope this helps.

;-)

Answer 5

Great question and one that takes a whole lot more time and explanation than we have here.

Only through the Lord God, can this be achieved.  When we give up our lives to God, He fills it with His purpose.  He introduces us to the people He needs in our lives to enrich them, to be fulfilled to their maximum potential.  We find the 'requited' love, peace and hope, to go forward harmoniously, one with God.

Our soulmate is God, Himself.

May the Lord be with you...

Answer 6

Well. I think it's totally depends on the theory of your own, which you call true love and yes, they certainly in minority as it happens. Because it's very hard to find a total looser who will love you for nothing or just who you are and even if they don't get love in return, or sometimes just misery.

  As far as i believe, love is a illusion of minds and hearts and it's so fragile like water, one drop of dirt and it's become dirty. Again love is pure and it's changes it's colour thorough out, just like water will turn in to any colour you mix with it.

   By the way, in my opinion, love is always been biggest part of humankind. You cannot achieve much if you don't have a love in your heart. Yes, unconditional love is the one of kind, but to achieve such a great height, you could be the either looser or fool by normal people's standard, as you are the one mostly dishing out your life in return most of the time nothing or very little. The only thing you have with you is your clear conscience as pure as water.

    I am not sure how much of these will make sense for you, but that is what i think. There is no right or wrong with love, it's just simple overwhelming feeling, which has very thin line between love and infatuation.

Answer 7

true love may find and it may not

Answer 8

there is a true love for everyone!  but finding it is next to impossible!

Answer 9

Having the love you speak is a difficult process. You have to go beyond lust, physical attraction, and comfort with one another.  You have to start with the choices you make in the relationship. You need to have communication, trust, honesty, compassion, self-sacrifice, and the ability to love without seeking perfection in another. Sometimes you will have to meet the needs of another without questioning why. Even after you manage these things you still have to find the same in another. That is extremely difficult.

Jealousy, selfish behavior, unfaithfulness, hate, greed, and apathy are the great destroyers of love.

We as humans have free will to make those choices. From a religious standpoint many would say God's love is perfect and true... and I won't argue with those that would say that. but that would only be the gift he gives to you. If you fail to return it in the same way I wound not consider it "true love"; besides I believe you are speaking of love between two humans not love related to faith.

Love starts with you... and someone like you... how true it becomes will depend on the choices you both make... I believe most of us would be content to have something close.

It would be extremely rare to have it all.

Answer 10

I think that some people go searching and searching and get completely desperate. I know somebody who was very desperate, and proposed to the woman he was dating after only a few dates. She's nice and all, but it was definitely forced. Just like going to a single's club. That's nice and all, but I believe that true love will come to people when it's unexpected. True love is rare, and when you have it, cherish it!

Answer 11

Yep.  And you can't seek it out; it finds you at the most unexpected of times.