Is virginity of a person is the best wedding gift towards his partner?

Question

Is virginity of a person is the best wedding gift towards his partner?

Answer 1

I don't think so!!!- I think it complicates a wedding night by setting up unrealistic expectations, confusion, and pain.  I'm glad my fiance and I are "experienced."

Answer 2

No because your honeymoon would be lame. No not fast, stop that hurts, lets try this tomorrow after our hike through the mountains... :)

Answer 3

No.  Being a virgin when you're married is overrated.  I'd rather marry someone who I can trust and respect and gives me the same than worry if he's ever had s*x with another person.

And let's just look at it this way.  You're not going to hire the electrician who never did any electrical work.  Why would you commit yourself to a man who's never gotten any practice in the bedroom?

That said, I won't be a virgin on my wedding night, although I was a virgin when I met my fiance.  In retrospect, I have to wonder why I was so obsessed with my virginity for so long.  I advocate monogamy and safe s*x, but I really do think sleeping with only one person ever is hyped up a bit too much.  If I could do it over again, I'd have been less concerned with my virginity and had a lot more fun.  ;-)

Answer 4

Not really! You want to test drive it before you buy it

Answer 5

lol maybe.depends about partner.

Answer 6

a guy would think so

Answer 7

Not if he expects it.

Answer 8

The question says, "HIS partner", meaning that we're talking about the virginity of the groom.  It's in my experience that a lot of women don't seem to care whether or not their fiance is a virgin, although that's not the case with how men feel about their fiancees.   I know that a lof of women seem to be attracted to "experienced" men, and could actually be turned off by "40 year old male virgins".

Answer 9

That's a very personal choice... one that you should make for yourself, not for anyone else.

Regardless of what you choose, I would advise that you live with your betrothed at least 6 to 12 months BEFORE you get married.  It will shed light on the person and show you if you can hack it as a couple.

Regardless, whatever you do, be happy, and good luck!

Answer 10

yup,most definitely.I wish I would have waited.

Answer 11

Virginity is not the best thing someone can bring to a relationship. The best things one can give in a relationship are honest, respect, loyalty and support.

If you're a virgin when you get married, it's nice to share that with your partner. However, It's definitely not the end all, be all.

Answer 12

h**l YEA!!! THAT IS EVERY GUYS DREAM!!!  

Answer 13

You know, that is about the sweetest question I have seen on here.  Virginity is something that cannot be bought, and can only be given away once.  I know plenty of people who waited until their wedding nights to have s*x, and they are some of the strongest couples I know,  So, yes, I would say that IS the best wedding gift one could give to their partner.  I wish I would have.  I wish my husband would have, too.

***A "GIFT" has nothing to do with the other qualities and strength one brings to a marriage.

Answer 14

What?... better than love, fidelity, kindness, empathy, a strong work ethic, tolerance, joy, intellect, devotion? Not in my book.

Answer 15

It absolutely would be because that is the greatest gift a man or woman can give . With a woman it is easy to tell , and with a man who really knows but him , but regardless of that the gift is the greatest one can give

Answer 16

Not always, trust, loyalty,honesty,openness,devotion and true love and care are worth more to me.

I am lucky I have everything in my man.

Answer 17

I'd prefer honesty and respect.  What a person has or hasn't done in the past can't be helped on the wedding day.  Your approach to life and your spouse, however, will determine the fate of your marriage.