Is virginity so important for a girl? Why should she wait till her marriage? ?

Question

Comments from females please.

Answer 1

its what God wants...most ppl put off marriage too long...why torture yourselves?

Answer 2

It should be kept until you are completely ready to deal with any consequences that come with having s*x.

Depending on your age, I wish I kept mine a lot longer, you can't get it back and it does change you and how others view you.

I wouldn't of waiting for marriage, it's admirable for those who do but I just wish I didn't do it so early bc really I had no clue, and the emotional turmoil you go through.

Answer 3

I think it should all depend on how the woman herself feels about the issue.  If she believes that she shouldn't be having s*x until marriage because of her own moral beliefs, then she should make the decision that stays truest to what she thinks.  Similarly, if a woman doesn't think that retaining her virginity is important (since it's a bit of a double standard within society that men can have as much s*x as they wish and women are expected to be virgins), and 'loses' it before marriage, that's her choice as well.  It's up to a woman as to how she views and uses her body.

The worst thing that could happen would be that a woman would feel forced by society to feel dirty or wrong for losing her virginity; or forced to feel like a cold prude for keeping it until marriage.  It's whatever the woman is comfortable with.

Answer 4

well i'm still young

& i am a virgin, there is nothing wrong with being one

it is sort of important to me but then again it's not ( i know i'm contradicting myself)

like i'm not just going to loose it to anybody

but then again i believe that marriage is just papers

why is it that a couple should have a marriage certificate to be recognized as being married?

they loved each other before they got the certificate so how does a certificate change it.

so it's kinda like bologna to me

you don't need a piece of paper to tell that 2 people love each other

all you need is commitment with yourself and the person you love

but as of right now for me i am still waiting

that's just what i think

just my opinion